Why Do the Bad Boys Get the Woman and the Nice Boys don't?

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Permalink Reply by Awesome on October 21, 2008 at 10:09pm

I used to feel the same way....Or at least I played into it I suppose.....Yes I like the bad boys.....Until I grew up and realized how self-centered one can be.....

Today I stand for the nice guys and educate all the women around me to give every man an opportunity to shine.....

When I think about it though, I suppose LOA is working in that a bad boy is self-assured and very confident and that is a very attractive trait, but it doesn't make up the whole of who he is and in my own experience, they may attract the girls, but they don't keep them.....Well I shouldn't say that, I stayed with a badboy for 17 years.....When I look back at things though, I don't know what I was thinking.....Nice guys are rare, they should have all the benefits the bad boys do, I just wish they could be more self-confident because they have such beautiful hearts.....

Be careful what you wish for and with this knowledge, enable yourself to want for MORE!

Namaste,
Awesome

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Permalink Reply by SecretAngel on November 1, 2008 at 9:53pm

Awsome,I agree with you... some times bad boy don't try, and when you don't try of WANTING something, things come to you freely. Sometimes when you try or think too hard... you actually block the energy... so start living your life believeing that you already have everything you want, every girl you want... but be a gentleman... ladies always LOVE gentlemen

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Permalink Reply by Afterglow on October 21, 2008 at 10:21pm

I consider myself to be a nice girl and there is no way I like bad boys! Trust me good girls like good boys! I think that whole bad a$$ persona is such a major turn off. I think it's a confidence issue. The bad boys are full of themselves and think they're God's gift to women and therefore attract more girls. Perhaps good guys just wait in the background being slightly more scared??

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Permalink Reply by Awesome on October 21, 2008 at 10:24pm

I totally agree....It's like they hold back and they really shouldn't.....How is a good girl or bad girl or any girl suppose to know who they are if they are hiding in the back ground scared of their own shadow?

I think you good guys should step forth and claim their place on this planet.....Give every sweet girl the opportunity to fall in love with a good guy....LIKE PRINCE CHARMING......

Awesome

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Permalink Reply by Renegade on October 21, 2008 at 10:31pm

Or maybe it's their shadow that is scared of them O_o no?, nope o ok :)

-Renegade

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Permalink Reply by Afterglow on October 21, 2008 at 10:36pm

Yeah they do hold back. It's like they're scared of being rejected. Bad boys get rejected too! Hell everyone gets rejected!! Seriously just be nice and go up to a girl and talk to her. If she's worth it and think you are too then she'll respond and be nice.

Like Awesome said...you guys need to claim your place in society!

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Permalink Reply by Renegade on October 21, 2008 at 10:39pm

you guys... lol

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Permalink Reply by James on October 21, 2008 at 10:49pm

So in all reality, its not that the good boys are less attractive, but less confident a lot of the time? thats what the girls are so attracted to? Amazing!

So in a stronger reality, if the good boys would become very confident, just as much as a bad boy, yet treat the women with respect and love, then one would think that the women would be waaaaayyyyyy more attracted to the good boys, correct?
And if not, then that means the women who still want the bad boys have low self-esteem and don't think they can get anything better. Make sense?

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Permalink Reply by Renegade on October 21, 2008 at 10:52pm

Correct but I guess we could call this the law of self believe?

-Renegade

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Permalink Reply by Afterglow on October 21, 2008 at 10:55pm

Don't be overconfident and cocky because that's a major turn off. Guys just need to be confident, not full of themselves, be able to hold a decent conversation, be presentable and nice. I think that's what most women want in guys.

Well if you're standing against a wall how on earth am I supposed to notice you?!

I'm not sure if these women have low self esteem.

Where do you go out to meet women?

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Permalink Reply by Renegade on October 21, 2008 at 10:57pm

From the LOA you do not need to go out to even meet a woman, you just need to be confident, but hey everyone go out at one point to do shopping or something I believe.

-Renegade

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Permalink Reply by Awesome on October 22, 2008 at 1:28am

True dat Renegade....but you have to step outside, unless the man upstairs is delivering door to door now...I mean it could happen, but get yourself out there....Mix n' mingle.....

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