I asked the universe for signs that it was possible to attract an ex back using loa.
I am reading The Astonisshing power of emotions of Abraham-Hicks, and i just found this:
So will my husband come back to me, since he´s the one i really want? Of course it is possible that as you come back into aligment with your Vibrational Escrow picture of the life you want to live, this man and this relatioship could be the path of least resistance to get you what you want. If often happends that way.
WHEN YOU COME INTO ALIGMENT WITH WHO-YOU-REALLY-ARE and with the relatioship that you have re-created, which your Inner Being is calling you toward, it is possible that this man (your ex, they are giving advice to a lady going through divorce) will flow easily back into your experience... but that is irrelevant.
They advice not to focus on getting him back and be open for whatever the universe deliver, but it can be done to get him back.
You kind of answered your own question here. You see when you let it go – you don’t even have the thought of that person. You explained you “tried” to get him back (which is interesting as “try” often is used when we either have heartedly attempt something or are setting ourselves up for failure – so it’s a good word to let go of. Its like when you are trying to be pregnant – you either aren’t or are). In trying, you aren’t letting go and your focus is on the lack of him being there.
Now the example you give is great, because when you were trying to get him back – where was your focus. It was on him not being there right. So you were focused on the lack. We’ve all had people like us at times, that we haven’t desired and no matter what we do – they still like us, but they give off a kind of energy that makes us want to run a mile. Sometimes, when we are fresh out of a relationship we go into that kind of energy that others pick up on and want to run.
The feeling better is fantastic, and that by far is one of the best things to do. LOA is often misunderstood in that people believe its about painting a smile over everything. It really isn’t – but its about accepting wherever you are at this moment in time without judgment or resistance (negative self talk etc) and then getting clear on what you desire and then following your inner being. Our inner beings know so much and how to perfectly orchestrate the right circumstances and people to us, but we often mistakeningly believe it has to happen in a particular sequence of events.
So rather than focus on the past and what you used to do, instead I would highly recommend first getting an idea of what you desire to do and the kind of relationship that would work well for you. Relationship is a bit like love in that it’s a term that means a hundred, if not thousand, different kinds of things and we live in an abundant universe that can cater for everyone. So getting clear on the kind that would work for you is a really good start, because when you become aware of it, you start to vibrate and attract that to you. Also it never happens the way we believe it will – the universe has our backs so well, but if you have a set in stone idea of how it will happen, often you will create resistance because your focus is on the lack of it not being there.
Yes. Yes. Yes.
We should follow our desire. Despite what others may think.
I have heard Abe live in workshops address this very issue, and its interesting as its the same advice but its always delivered in a way appropriate to the person asking the question, but a lot of the time they are talking about getting clear about what you actually desire to create, and then allowing that to come to you without any resistance. Sometimes, when you get clear on what you actually desire - you recognise that your ex isn't actually a good match at all.