Hope you're doing well and enjoying manifesting good things into your life :-)
Do you think that it's possible to change someone else's perception of yourself intentionally with the Law of Attraction?
I had a major fall-out with someone at work and it took me ages to realize that she thinks that I'm being arrogant and easily offended... when in reality I'm struggling with shyness. I'm trying my best to overcome this problem, but still sometimes avoid eye contact in the worst possible moments, become quiet and tongue-tied and now that the situation has gone downhill I had a few moments when I tried to avoid that colleague in the corridor (...which I think she probably noticed).
On one hand, I don't want to 'advertise my issues' in my work place and rather just improve (though I don't know how long it will take), on the other hand I don't want any issues with other colleagues just because of that. Any suggestions or advise would be much appreciated.
Anything is possible, but I think if you change your own perception of yourself then it doesn’t matter what anyone elses perception is, and you won’t be at the impact of anyone else’s perceptions.
Now you say you “realise”. That may be true, but it may not be true that this person thinks of you in this way that you are presuming. Now you say this situation has gone downhill. Focus on what you desire the situation to be like. You can work on both this and the shyness at the same time if you like, as both are connected. Focus on what you would like to feel like in this situation. How would you be in your best energy and vibration? Now with this person, any efforts you make can pay off dividends, so whilst you don’t have to have a tricky conversation with them, but it can be something as simple as asking how they are and how their weekend was. That alone can sometimes be the first step.
“Do you think that it’s possible to change someone else’s perception of yourself intentionally with the Law of Attraction?”
Yes, by changing your perception of yourself.
When you see you, the way you want them to see you (with acceptance, appreciation and understanding), then they will, too.
We are doing this all of the time. But their inner being has to agree!
Yes you can. The thing to remember is that they are only reflecting back to you, the things which you think and feel about yourself, so if you start changing those, they will respond in kind. Start thinking good things about yourself and do this often. Maybe you could make a list of your positive qualities and refer to that each day as well. As the thoughts sink in, you will also start to feel differently about yourself, and the people in your world will sense these new energies and act accordingly.
Hi all... Many thanks for your advice. That's really helpful and gives me hope.