If part of the person wants sobriety, off dependency of chemicals too, could I just keep dreaming of him being sober permanently and maybe he will be supported by the universe to succeed in doing so soon?
I dont think we can manifest for others. My husband is very sick and I have hoped and tried to cure him, but it hasnt worked. I think we have to recognize others are on their own journey? idk Laura, but I wish hi (and you) the best. xo
As per my knowledge of Neville’s teachings this is very much possible. He always manifested for others. There is a YouTube channel ‘create your future’ where a lady named Amanda talks about this a lot.
I have manifested a few things for others. Off the top of my head... dream career for my nephew( he got in without taking the mandatory entrance test), a good housemaid for my mom, dream job ( she hadn’t been employed for over ten years) for my sister, fewer work responsibilities (and thus stress ) for my dad, an excellent nursing home for my grandma . All these seemed impossible to varying degrees.
This person is very cherished by me, but now their behavior has been unacceptable.
I'm torn. I think I need space. And to only tell them I can consider having contact when they are totally sober from now on. It's sad, they have a lifetime of addictive behaviors to change? Like 38ish years. Do people think they may be stuck then?
I understand how you must be feeling.
Always keep self love as your highest priority. I try to not feel threatened when people or circumstances change. It’s either reflecting my fears/ beliefs or making way to a better life for me.
I wouldn’t focus on how difficult and sad their situation is. Nothing is too big or too difficult for the universe. I would rather focus on how awesome they would be when they are completely sober. Try focusing on the end result than the process of transformation. I know someone who did this with a family member, it wasn’t exactly a transformation of addiction to sober but something very similar .