Creating by default is conditional living. You need to control people and conditions to be a certain way so you can feel good. You’re trying to make things happen. You micromanage. You stress. You worry. You doubt. You feel fear a lot of the time with your awareness of lack. You’re at the whim of negative emotion without any deliberate control over it.
Creating deliberately is unconditional living. You accept people and experiences as they are and have no interest in controlling anything other than yourself and how you feel. You’re a deliberate feeler. You focus only on thoughts that help you feel relief or feel good. You allow things to work themselves out effortlessly and in the most creative way. You feel relaxed, satisfied, worthy, interested and joyful more and more of the time because you know everything is working out for you.
“Are you saying deliberate creators aren’t trying to make things happen?”
There are people who view themselves as a deliberate creator who try to make things happen. That’s a deliberate efforter, not a deliberate allower. Not a deliberate receiver. Not a deliberate tuner to their preferred frequency. A deliberate creator is someone who allows themselves to receive what has already been (vibrationally) created.
Being a deliberate creator does not mean you’re focusing for the purpose of making your desire/outcome/manifestation happen. You deliberately create by not deliberately creating resistance. You deliberately create the space, the atmosphere, that allows what you want to be received by you.
If you’re trying to make it happen, you don’t trust that it’s already done. You don’t know your only job is to have fun. You’re creating resistance by default because while trying to make it happen, you’re focused on the lack of infinite Source support. You’re still trying to do it on your own. Instead of deliberately creating the emotional atmosphere to receive the guidance that is always being given to you every step of the way.
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or "I enjoy" and variations of it too. Although saying 'I have' while radiating lack, in of itself doesn't do anything. So while the words are important, the feelings behind them are much more so.
The issue isn’t that you don’t know what you want. The issue is that you think that’s an issue. You may not know what you want, but you know what emotions you want to feel. “I want to feel loved. I want to feel accepted. I want to feel appreciated. I want to feel interested. I want to feel eager. I want to feel satisfied. I want to feel relaxed. I want to feel ease and flow.” As you stay in that general state of emotions you want, you will get into alignment and the specifics of other things you want will begin to be received by you.
I appreciate you asking, and no, I would just like to keep it here.
Super helpful thank you!! i was missing your posts!!