I know this has probably been posted before, so I do apologise if so.
But I am really struggling with this at the moment. My job is a very toxic workplace, I try to see it in a different perspective and try to focus on the good parts in my life. But emotionally it wears me down, bringing my mood down, which therefore brings my vibration down.
I am trying to manifest my dreams to come true, I also take positive action as well, so its not like I am sitting around for this to happen. I am just sick of this job getting me down, I have days where I go home and just want to stare into space because of how my bosses are, I can't find a new job at the moment as I am in the process of getting a mortgage with my partner (which is great) so I feel quite stuck here and not able to just quit and go find a new job.
But I am trying to manifest my dream job. I just feel exhausted trying to stay positive in a place that feels like prison - the rules here are so ridiculous to the point where they are dictating to what we can and cannot eat in the office, there is a lot of sexism and bullying. (its a long story with a lot of negativity so I won't go into too much detail)
I am just asking for some advise of how to create more inner peace and focus on manifesting my goals and not be beaten down by their issues and negativity. I want to feel stronger whilst I am here.
Is there anything I can do to help?
I haven't heard of this, please can you explain more as I would love to understand this :) thank you xx
Thank you so much, I do sometimes think I have to be positive 24/7 for things to manifest and have to remind myself that I am human and that I am going to have bad days! I will definitely try the salt baths, that sounds very relaxing!
I appreciate your advice, thank you x
The best thing you can do right now is try to find everything in everyone that is similar to you or what you can appreciate in each individual you have to deal with. Also, focus on what you DO appreciate about your job, and only that. This is so when you move on to a new job, you won't attract the same nightmare because you will be in a better mindset as it relates to your attitude towards your co-creators. Unfortunately, your contract has been established so as long as you stay there, you will be in the same rut. The best/worst-case scenario is your newfound appreciation for your job and your co-workers will breach the contract and you will lose your job.
In my research, I have found that deliberate manifestation is a compartmentalized strategy composing of eight compartments. Each will render results if focused on alone. compartment 2 and 3 relate to your beliefs about yourself and your beliefs about others. If you proceed with attracting a dream job without taking head to these 2 compartments, you will land a job you love, surrounded by people you can't stand.
The universe is nothing more than a big cold void, filled with mirrors. It will only reflect back what you shine upon it. Therefore, in the end, when you are ready to interject with the word, the universe will take everything you give it and make it your reality. This includes the mending of good beliefs with bad beliefs to create a full picture or platform for your next experience.
This really made sense, thank you. The past few dates I have been writing down what I am grateful for, even the smallest things. I have been watching videos and trying to shift my perspective and I feel much better for it, thank you :)
This is very true, I have been focusing more on the great things I have than letting the one terrible thing consume me, I feel much better the past couple of days for it! Thank you for giving me advice, it really did help :)
This post has already had some great responses.
I will try to write down whatever has worked for me .
One time I was in a highly unwanted place and I had to stay there for a little while. This was before knowing about the LOA. I would soothe and comfort myself with the fact that this will end soon and the day I walk out of here would be such an awesome day! And it was! I still remember packing all my stuff and looking at the place thinking to myself - good riddance!
The other thing you can do is to not try being positive all day. May be keep aside an hour or two for meditation or some positive vibration activity . You want to gradually increase your momentum and raise your vibration . Then you won’t have to try too hard.
Always try to go from negative to neutral before jumping to the positive state.
The most powerful technique you can use would be to become aware. Aware about everything. Aware that your coworkers are reflecting your negative vibration . Without you expecting them to behave this way they cannot do a thing. Imagine you holding one end of a rope and them holding the other. This rope represents your expectation/ belief about them. When you let go of this end you are no longer connected to them. Basically when you drop your belief they will disappear from your life. I have experienced this a lot. There is a chance this might make you feel guilty of creating a negative experience. That’s ok! Being guilty is far better than being a powerless victim ( referring to the emotional guidance scale ). Therefore just try to feel better , not necessarily joyous . Also become aware that they would behave the same way with any other human who offered that vibration so it’s not personal at all. What I am going to say next might not sound very good but it worked for me. In such situations I used to feel sympathy for these kind of people as they aren’t living their best life. That way I don’t make them powerful villains in my head.
I have a question for you .. you said it’s not possible for you to quit this job and look for another but you can always find another job and then quit this one?
Thank you so much, this has really helped. I find by observing them lately I do feel more sympathy as its more about whats going on inside them, its just hard when its in the midst of them behaving badly that I sometimes forget to apply this. But thank you for reminding me it can actually be a powerful tool!
I can look for another job, but here in the UK you need to be in a job for 3 - 6 months to apply for a mortgage, and my partner and I are in the process of selling and applying for a new mortgage, so I don't want to mess that up by quitting and starting a new job. I'd rather try to ride it out then once we have the mortgage I can finally leave. I just feel quite stuck I suppose. But I am realising now its more to do with what is inside, and that I am okay to feel a bit low sometimes without it affecting my vibration.
thank you for your input, this has really helped xx
Oh okay , I am not aware of how things work over there.
If I were you I would still dwell in the feeling of having a good feeling job . Because that is what you truly want. Getting away from your current job could be one way . But there are many other possibilities. And the universe is abundant with infinite possibilities that could lead you to a good feeling job. One possibility could be that the people or the rules in your office change. I have experienced this myself.
You don’t have to figure out how things will happen, in fact this may limit your potential to manifest. The universe finds out magical ways to take you to your desired reality.
If you cannot reach for that specific feeling of freedom from the mortgage rules etc just reach out for a general feeling of freedom and ease and flow. Recognize and appreciate it when things go well for you outside of your job. That energy will overflow into your job without you having to do it. Affirm that the universe loves you, takes care of you and has abundant love, success, joy, satisfaction , fulfillment for you. Don’t do this with the intention of solving your problem but as a means of tuning into your real self.
I am glad I could help and I hope to read your success story soon.
Thank you, I will keep focusing on the positives, fingers crossed things will change :) x