Ever since I've told them I'm seeking to work for myself they've stopped acknowledging me properly for the last 7 times I've seen them.
They literally ask my sister what is she up to or what's happening in my life but they do not ask me.
They gossip and also don't respect me. They obviously think low of me and have a low opinion of me.
They have bullied me in the past and can't even acknowledge my degree (and acknowledge everyone else's).
They haven't bothered to get to know me and are gossiping about me to other people.
To summarise all I can say is they have bullied me, emotionally abused me in the past, manipulating me and others, and also trying to brainwash gaslight me.
Don't understand why they are doing this?
Hey Natahm i think you're victim of narcissists, there are wonderful coach online who can help you (Angie Atkinson, Melanie Tonia Evans, Meredith Miller) with their incredible free youtube videos. Here's a quote for you by Abraham Hicks:
"The person that needs to do something is not that person. The person that needs to do something is you! Some of those people in your life do not deserve your good thoughts. In other words, "They are bad. They are evil. They are wrong! They are inappropriate. They do not deserve your good thoughts," and you stubbornly are not going to give them any. They may not deserve your good thoughts. But you do. You deserve your good thoughts about them. This is what the Art of Allowing is. It's allowing my own Well-being."
Yes i agree with you! Nathan yes i get you, bad narcissists lol Anyway to really empower you i have to tell you there's not a monster out there trying to control you, it's all about your vibe, do you still feel powerless somehow?
i ADORE this quote:
I know peoples dont like this, but then if one test it, the truth will show up...ok, you are causing it, the more you react emotionally the more this PATTERN will be stable in your reality, the solution then is stop reacting, stop feeding the pattern, become indifferent or neutral when they start doing things you dont like.
Then start by intending what you want...this combo : intent+indifference to the bad physical events is what create your desires.
But peoples dont like it, because this will make the worries and emotions disappears with time or atleast soft hugely, and this will look like one become cold, something that scary the common person.
A useful video: