Yes, remember the good times and enjoy the feeling of remembering. Once your attention drifts, stop and find better feeling thoughts.
Oh and don't visualize in "anticipation" of his return. That means you are focusing on lack. Feel that you are good enough for him and that you are so grateful to him that he has choosen to be with you again because you are so lovely. The number one reason so many people are struggling with the law of attraction is because they are in a state of "waiting". Don't wait.... BE when you visualize.
I need some help.
We knew each other since we were tweens, and did best friends-stuff like climbing on a tree once and sitting there and talked.
We became closer few years after. We talked alot about our lives, He finally talked about his feelings and opened my heart and we became closer....Said how much he thought about me and that he saw something in me he couldn't see it other....I just found a friend there..We met again..Didnt had much time I had to go
But I went back running to him and hugged him and went away.. We talked later.. He loved my hugs and first time said he loved me alo and my hug lighten him up.
Then we got complex. It was on and off friendship. I fell in love with him and he cared less.. even as friends he betrayed me. Lied and never had time.. Hurted me with his words. He was always "busy" though he had more time with his two best friend.
After I had enough and lived my life that was when he chased me back months after.. He could go on and on. Saying he has changed and when I gave him a chance he was still the same idiot who didnt had time to meet and blocked me because I had enough of him..
I did everything to him. birthday gifts even though I wasn't invited. I made special gifts that brought him joys. I was there for him. I left him in summer after having enough. I wrote goodnight then I see he blocked me. Haven't heard from him since. Until months after he would write all the things like
"Just wanna let you know you mean the whole world to me and im grateful to know you" ... He also wrote it would be his last text. Then days after he texted me back "How are you?"
"Can't we just meet somewhere and talk? "
"I talk about you alot to my friend he thinks i miss u, and i do. .. i still remember our last hug, it will be nice with another one please? u mean alot to me, i hope we can start over. if you dont wanna talk then say it now and I will leave you alone"
I ignored all his messages and forgot all about him until this summer our mutual family member died and I 'had' to see him
I saw him in the other room crying in hospital and I am too sweet that I went to him and hugged him tight even though he admitted his mistakes. We hugged like 7 minutes. He hugged back which brought us closer.. (a painful, emotional and disaster situation, but thats another story)
I even had to go to his house after the funeral. It's weird that Since I barely had a thought about him suddenly I get to see him , meet his family, and come to his house. All that in one time. (It was the universe)
That time he wrote he will always be there for me and what I did was huge and great. He felt sorry for his mistakes even more.. And then after funeral I haven't heard from him ever. I wrote to him once that he shouldnt hesitate if he wants to talk but that was the last time ever we talked..
I miss the memories, the presence. Now we are both 18 and 19.
W often had some kind of telepathy. Saying things at the same time, thinking alike which was scary
The death should never happen because when it happen we met, we had emotional situation, and that brought all the thoughts back to me.. He is now in high school, new people, new ''friends.'
I really gave him a chance during the summer and suddenly I never hear from him again even though he said he will always be there for me... Now I see him making flirty comments on girls pages and some of them are nasty.... It hurts alot as I feel forgotten...
As I said we had on and off.. I would often let go and he would chase back and that happen like 5 times.. But this time? No words since summer and I wonder if he will ever contact me again if I let go? Or maybe he is thinking he should leave me alone since I always ignored his messages .....
I just really need some help, advice, comfort, and something to bring up hope again, dont wanna hear ' he is not the one for you or good'-that part is up to me.
I just want some advice and support. What I should do. I really want to let go and live myself and make it POSSIBLE for him to ever contact me again and see me living my life.. I do some hobbies and im busy alot, but there are times when I can get sad...
Please someone . I barely talk about this to anyone, and I always have it in my mind without talking to people cause no one understands me to this... I really hope you will read this and help me. Please thanks. LOVE.