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I haven't been on this forum for over a year. I has really changed... i hardly even recognize it. I haven't been on in so long that i forgot my username.
Well I'm back because I find myself needing help to grow with my intentions but also to help others that need encouragement especially with love.
I will start by giving some background.

A year and a half ago I lost the love of my life through my own irresponsible actions (I didn't cheat but I did treat him horribly.) And I don't blame him for leaving. We were together for 10 years at this point. Once it sunk in that he was not going to stick around it was too late for me to make up for it. I went through all the stages of a breakup. Devistation, anger, feeling sorry for myself, feeling angry at myself... you name the emotion I went through it.
I went on different forums to find support but I mostly got harassed and told I don't deserve him. I started to believe it. But then I had snap out it if I wanted to do anything about it.
So I started watching the Secret every night. I downloaded the audio book and listened to it over and over... I even fell asleep to it. I had to gain my hope back that I was worth having what I wanted even if I did make mistakes along the way.
So I got the concept of the Secret. I just needed real life reassurance that I could attract a person back into my life. Most of the posts I read were about people just like me. There weren't many that illustrated love lost coming back. I knew that if my lost love ever came back I would have to come back and share my story.

So here I am. I want to tell you all that it can happen! You CAN attract your lost love back to you!!
After 4 months of putting the Secret to work I got my love back. 4 months and 1 year after I MARRIED him!!!

The first step is you have to make sure.... positively sure that you want to back with that person for the right reasons. Not pride, not comfort, it has to be genuine. Once you recognize the genuine love and want for this person you have to take a deep breath. You have to relax and trust that your love is worth waiting for as long as it takes to get what you want, because you never really know when it will come back to you.
And so starts the game of energy. Which is what the Secret is all about, energy. and to truly illustrate how I attracted it back was a post i discovered and read over and over and over and over and over.

"You redirect your thoughts to other matters. Now you only pay that person as much attention as you do everyone else (it is wrong to ignore the person - and that happens often as a reaction of ego, pride, etc.). You continue to be kind and good and behave as though nothing ever happened between the two of you. Although that person's reaction to your attention was negative, you are not adversely effected. (Can you see how easy it is to forget "the greatest love" once you "unplug" and distance yourself from it?)

What happens? The same person who didn't pay you any attention before now begins to take an interest in you. It is a game of energy. If you want something from someone or try to impose your needs on him or her, a similar situation arises because it isn't what "that" person wants.

The solution lay always in the middle ground. Returning to the example, where the situation is completely reversed, suddenly your opinion matters and he or she now finds you trustworthy and someone they want to confide in. In the first case you were giving your energy to the other person (in the form of affection and approval), in the second case, you withdrew your energy.

Feeling an overall absence of energy, the other person seeks to restore the balance of the original state. With your energy withdrawn, the other person must now go farther to restore the balance of energy, so far that they are now willing to "invest" some of their energy, attention. When you redirected your energy and gave up your desire, it came true.

Physics, which, among other things, describes the various relationships and behavior of energy exchange, can explain this phenomenon. The universe acts according to the principles of energy exchange and humans are primarily beings of energy that have a physical form. Thus, the idea that physics could inform the notion of relationships between human beings as an overall interaction and exchange of energy is not only phenomenal, but also becoming more recognized in the world.

This example illustrates one of the basic Laws of Nature. As long as you are trying to gain the affection of another person, your over exuberance causes the energy scale to tip out of balance, resulting in the object of your affection withdrawing theirs to the point of indifference. For them, this situation is ideal.

You are now in deep and under their control, eyes wide and bright, eager to please, doing whatever they want to the extinction of your own needs. When you withdraw your attention, and thus your energy, the scale tips in the opposite direction and the other party sees the resulting deficit as their losing control over you. Their fear of losing now compels them to respond by investing their energy to get yours back on their side again.

Whenever you feel the compulsion to force a situation, you are in danger of any disbelief you may harbour of a successful outcome overtaking you and extinguishing any tiny spark of faith and hope you have. "

So I "moved on" I got on with my life as best I could. Of course I always had him on my mind. But I wasn't staying in bed all day anymore. I wasn't drinking myself blind anymore. I had a life again.
Once I really started living by what I read I would get calls from him at least 3 times a week. Until finally I got a call from him telling me that he wanted to be back together.

So once again, let me reassure that it will work! It has worked!

My best of luck to everyone out there trying to attract their lost love!!!

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I don't know if i have done a bad thing or not, but i figure everyone here will set me straight. So my boyfriend fo 8 months ended things with me about 3 or so months ago. for about 2 months i have been using the loa and saying 'oh he'll come back...' anywho lately i've noticed on facebook when i log in, his status is 'upset' or 'depressed' or something along those lines. well i thought about and while i do want him back i want him to be happy, not speaking to him since we broke up (his choice), i sent him a facebook message saying smething like 'i don't know what you are going through, but whatever is, if you want to talk, you know the number.'( and when i sent it i truly had no other motives.) So i went on with my work today, and did my usual facebook check later and he had sent me a message sayig 'it's ok i'm going on vacation tomorrow. i'll be fine.'
I feel a bit 'lost' now after sending that message. I don't know quite what to do/think. On one hand he answered (more than i actually thought he would) on the other, he didn't say 'oh emily i want you back like yesterday.' though i know his message is no definitive answer either way.
I guess my question is - what do i do from here?

(Also, Mallica - just wanted to say i can't post on your forum, can you add me to your discussion?)
* I guess i should add, that i do want him back...Guess that is an important part of the explanation - lol
You kick ASS! Thank you for this post, it is just what I needed tonight. I am 8 weeks out into a breakup and am trying hard to do what I can the LOA way. What is confusing to me is do I really seriously have to quench my strong emotions for him before anything positive can happen? Or is it ok to feel the way I do but refuse to slow my life down and work to improve and make me happy? Is that ok too?

I do feel frantic, and angry sometimes, and lonely but Im doing all I can to make my life sweeter. Im in the gym, losing weight, getting compliments, tanning, new clothes, planting flowers, etc. I admit I still am aching over him though. This is where I would love some guidance. I dont want to waste anymore time doing things the wrong way. I want and need to be better!
Now after reading this, I know why I have chosen to study physics at school again :)

It is destiny :P

I was with my partner for 3 1/2 years. I admit, I have pushed her away. Now she won't talk to me anymore..no response to my text..nothing. I have been feeling so hopeless. Now I am a believer in energy as well as the laws of attraction. So yesterday, after discovering EFT, I decided to google "law of attraction and lost love." Then I came across this discussion. First I want to say thank you for posting this. So many people's ego and pride prevents them from sharing like stories. Thank you.
I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!! I am so glad to hear this worked for someone! You give me hope and I BADLY need it this week xxx
I'm also waiting to be reunited with my husband. These posts give me good hopes and great vibes.
Thanks for the great story, I hope my story has a happy ending as well!!!
For others, I keep seeing no more help than "get into the vortex" on another Abe forum. Remember, Abraham never has lived on the physical plane, so that's where his knowledge stops. All religions or spiritual guidance plans seem to have a finite point of being helpful. I love Abe and always will follow the law of attraction, but it is not the answer to everything concerning the physical plane and human interaction. Yes, you can solve all problems by avoiding them in the vortex, or you can live life and see it as a dance and INTERACT WITH humans, seeing them as beautiful - and live in the vortex.

Abe doesn't seem to know much about how we can reach out to others to make love work on earth, so he says, get in the vortex over and over

HAHAHAAA I'm so glad someone finally said this!!! I had a few months of being frustrated, when advice and blogs and articles parrot over and over "just get happy" and you think...hmmm ok how exactly?! of course I'm finding my own way, but advice is general is not very explanatory to people searching for explanations and answers...

thanks tunasandwich5 for your awesome story!! how are things?! I hope you are well :)
I just want to say Hi and thanks for the postings really helping me out at the moment, and they started way back !! I have a very messy story and this really is the final chance for us (although it has led me to learning life-skills as is the Secret !) I may tell my story one time but certainly take a bit of typing I may need some encouragement too - I feel a bit unfaithful to, wouldn't like her to see

Your story brings me peace.. I guess i need to stop over-inflating the balloon.. We had started to get back after 9 months.. But i feel him withdrawing again.. Like again being compalcent and taking for granted sorts.. I'm going to withdraw my energy.. Let's keep connected.. Thank you for your story..


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