I want to get my ex back,i know the law of attraction says to set out an intention believe it can happen and then to act on it, but when it comes to getting an ex back what exactly is the action required to do this
hey there I'm not sure of the details of your relationship with her are but,this can be done more easily than you probably think.(don't rule out hooking up with someone better than her ) (ALSO IF YOU NEED MORE DETAILED ADVICE EMAIL ME)I consider myself an expert on this situation.
as for a bit of inspiration I got an ex back from a very rich pro football player while having not much money and living at my moms.I'm not saying that it was right i was young and didn't realize the damage I was causing at the time and I was caught cheating as well as just not being there like i should have been.I'm guessing you already tried begging her.(don't do that again it will most likely hurt you.)
I do agree with what Modesttreasure said .But, I would like to add a few things that worked for me.
I begged too much to get my ex back as I'm sure you most likely did (this makes you look and feel desperate.)which no matter how desperate you might feel you aren't.
I would suggest that you avoid your ex like the plague for a few days if not a week keep yourself busy to keep your mind off of her.I would also suggest that you go out with your friends if you can with a friend thats a girl asap.even on a non serious date if you can.
right now your bathing yourself in her rejection.when you shouldn't be there was a reason she was with you for the time that she was you were someone different then and that is the person she is attracted to not the sad depressed you.
what worked for me to get my ex back after a whole 2 months of agony was when i finally said to myself that i wasn't going to let the breakup rule my life.and having faith in myself to be happy with her or someone else and bam like magik she wanted me back.
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thanks again for the advice its been about 8 months so ive already accepted the break up and all that stuff and im focusing on me and last week she made contact with me and asking me why dont say hi to her anymore or look at her anymore because i have to see her every week at church,This has happened before and last time i messed it up and i had to start the process all over again so, when you get to that point where im at now whats the next step?
hey sorry I didn't see your thread was updated . I would say if you haven't already done so you should start dating other women . If you still want your ex back , then let her know that your seeing other chicks even if your not make her think so . She prolly already thinks that you are seeing someone else . So next time in church say hi to her . Let her know your happier than you are . Then if you want her back or not other fine ladies might see you talking to her and nothing makes ladies wanna hook up more than seeing you with another fine lady . Back when I was single I used to go out and meet a girl or two at a club or take a friend that was a girl with me to a club and walk around with one or two on each arm ,so other chicks would see me with them . Before you know it women will approach you .
Even if you don't know any chicks to go out with at least go out .You can always fake it till you make it . If you don't have a lady to go out with email me and I'll help you get one .
I don't think any of that is in the law of attraction. That's not how it works. Fake it till you make it sends out a fake vibe. Only acting happy vibes a happy face sticker. You gotta work your way up the emotional scale until all of this seems real to you and your life really does change. It will lift your life, Jimi.
Actually, VibingOM, there is truth in faking something until you really feel it. Let me explain, if you want to be self-confident and you are not right now, fake it, force yourself to act self-confidently...it will come naturally sooner or later. Or if you are not happy right now, fake it anyway...smile to people, soon enough you will see joy around you. And that brings joy in you.
Act like you're having it right now, you can call it "fake it" but it works and it's not against LOA. You need to be more flexible, VO. LOA isn't dogma. There is not only one road to Rome.
I'm enjoying myself so much on my trip. NY weather has been wonderful and it lifts up my mood. My estranged husband didn't know I took the trip but he called repeatedly and I told him yesterday and he became insecure: "with whom?" He can't wait to see me again. Haha...like everyone says, you need to be happy and self-sufficient and secure to attract your ex back.
Don't live your life around them, make independent decisions for yourself. That way you become more attractive to them. And date...date...date!!
Lol i was just in new york too autumnrose last week with my friends and I had a blast i live in california. But anyways back to my current situation, there is this other girl i'm interested in and am getting to know. My ex has seen me talking to her numerous times and now she keeps asking me if i'm dating her in fact shes brought it up like 4 times now even though i keep telling her were just friends (for now anyways lol). Is this a sign that shes becoming interested again i think it is.