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Getting your (ex) lover back
To all those looking for the ' final solution' :-)) to this problem - I HAVE FOUND IT!
The answer is -
1) STOP STOP STOP with all the longing!
2) Master the art of POSITIVE SELFISHNESS. Ever wonder why selfish people always have people who love them and are loyal to them? They radiate a certain vibration, that's why !! You can't beat this law, so join it!! Think only of yourself (not of him/her), pamper yourself, enjoy the attention of those who do admire you, HAVE FUN, FORGET ABOUT THE LOSER WHO THOUGHT YOU WERE NOT WORTH IT! By positive selfishness i mean - be selfish but don't be hurtful to others.
3) I applied this formula - now my ex has eyes only for me, sends me the most flattering messages a woman would like to have, AND WHAT'S IMPORTANT IS - This man is no pathetic wimp, and has a lot of choices when it comes to women!
Cheers....to Myself !!! :-))))))))))))))))))))))))))
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It has always genuinely surprised me when a lover wanted to leave, when I wanted to continue. I'm good-looking, smart, cheerful, kind-hearted and interesting. I'm no wimp. I'm not needy. I rarely suffer from self-doubt. So for me the big question was - What is it then? I was determined to find out. And I did.
The first important thing to understand is that everything in the universe is energy, in one form or another. We are all energy. Our thoughts transmit this energy with a unique vibrational signature. We are masters at reading the energy of other human beings, and responding accordingly. Unless you develop awareness in this area, it's happening unconsciously.
Why do they leave?
We learn from two sources - our environment, and our experiences. Very often these two sources seem to impress upon us that life is a struggle. Our parents - their struggles make deep impression on the psyche. What we learn is that in order to deserve a love relationship we have to give in and give up….ourselves. And this is actually what causes loss of love.
If you fall in love and cannot keep your energy centered around yourself, your partner will leave. This is a law, as sure as sunrise and sunset.
Some people suffer a whole lifetime captured in this pattern - the same energy will bring the same result, over and over and over. If you are serious about mastering your love life, you HAVE to master the art of keeping your energy centered and aligned at all times. So how do you do this?
The art of Positive Selfishness.
In your mind, build a fabulous pedestal in granite or marble, in the middle of a town square - a pedestal with space for only one icon or idol. Place yourself on this pedestal. 'You' in gold, or platinum or titanium or whatever you wish. Does this bring home a message?
Stop focussing on - does he/she like me? will he mind if i say this/ do this….STOP! And start listening to the voice within…it will tell you how YOU are feeling.
Let your emotions be your guide. If you are getting feelings of sadness or discomfort in a relationship, take yourself serious! Don't hesitate to communicate with your partner over this, and don't hesitate to end the relationship if required.
Never turn your existing life and routine upside down for your lover, like cancelling appointments to accomodate him/ her unless it's really necessary. Don't neglect other areas of your life such as your work/ study/ sport/ children etc. Make it a habit not to think of your lover when you are doing other things. Live in the moment!
The Essential Nature of the Universe
( This may not seem relevant - but it is!! It will get you in alignment to ALLOW and RECEIVE )
We live in a dynamic, ever-changing universe. Just look out of your window! Is it ever the same? Seasons change, winds turn, trees grow, clouds come and go….and yet we human beings crave for certainty to give us a safe feeling. The truth is - change and uncertainty are the essential nature of the universe. When you accept this, you align yourself WITH the universal forces, instead of against.
You have to understand that this uncertainty is not your enemy, it is your best friend. This uncertainty is unlimited potential - it is the zero-setting for all manifestation. The Indian yogis understand it better than anyone else, they are the masters at this. My years in India have given me a wealth I cannot express in words.
Life is a healthy, free flowing river. When you let go and join the flow of life, trusting the current, it will take you to new places, new encounters, new people, new loves. When you pine and long for a person from your past, you get stuck and block the flow of life-force. The very things you want move away from you, simply because you want them, and your alignment set to negative.
Let's get one thing clear. Uncertainty in this context does not mean doubt, it refers to the ever-changing, never-static quality of the universe.
SO you want to be a manifestation master - you have to stand on this uncertainty - not only embrace it , but use it as a TOOL and as an opportunity. If the universe is renewing itself every moment, it's your golden chance to renew yourself. Yesterday's apartment can be turned into tomorrow's mansion. Yesterday's rejection, into adoration today….
When you are pining and longing for a person, you are NOT loving them, you are indulging in a personal party of misery and lack - therefore you are not transmitting vibrations of love. The more of this energy you send out, the more it will repel this person fom you.
If you truly LOVE a person, what does it matter where they are, with whom they are, as long as they are happy? You may certainly wish and intend that they be with you, but if you are jealous, hateful, fearful, the person receives each of these vibrations. So….let go, with love !!
When you combine clear intention with detachment, you get what you want.
intention + let go = receive
But this let-go…it has to come from deep within, it has to become a life belief.
So, to get your ex back-
1) Stop the longing - it is a self-destructive vibration (that reaches the ex).
2) Make the intention that you want him/her back, release this intention into the universe.
3) Then forget all about it.
4) Wipe your life-slate clean and blank.
5) Make a new intention - I enjoy a fabulous love-life - with a new love!! ja, ja :-)))
( sounds contradictory and disloyal - but this is vital - it puts out the signal that you're a healthy spirit )
6) Practice the art of positive selfishness.
7) Plunge into life - in every area - live in the moment, to the very fullest!!
That's it!
And believe me, as I got happy and strong in my own life, the man who had walked away started to come back - slowly. When he first began to make contact, he was careful, as if he was almost afraid of the energy he had experienced before. But this time it was a different energy, an attractive one. Very soon he started to contact me daily, and still does. As for me, I have changed. I have made no move towards him. I do answer one out of 5 of his messages. He's really crazy about me. At this point I commit to nothing. The choice is mine to make!
* A word about RS - You can try it if you feel attracted to do so. I have. It worked. I don't use it anymore - I don't feel the need. The above-mentioned formula works better and balances you in all areas of life.
The answer is -
1) STOP STOP STOP with all the longing!
2) Master the art of POSITIVE SELFISHNESS. Ever wonder why selfish people always have people who love them and are loyal to them? They radiate a certain vibration, that's why !! You can't beat this law, so join it!! Think only of yourself (not of him/her), pamper yourself, enjoy the attention of those who do admire you, HAVE FUN, FORGET ABOUT THE LOSER WHO THOUGHT YOU WERE NOT WORTH IT! By positive selfishness i mean - be selfish but don't be hurtful to others.
3) I applied this formula - now my ex has eyes only for me, sends me the most flattering messages a woman would like to have, AND WHAT'S IMPORTANT IS - This man is no pathetic wimp, and has a lot of choices when it comes to women!
Cheers....to Myself !!! :-))))))))))))))))))))))))))
---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
It has always genuinely surprised me when a lover wanted to leave, when I wanted to continue. I'm good-looking, smart, cheerful, kind-hearted and interesting. I'm no wimp. I'm not needy. I rarely suffer from self-doubt. So for me the big question was - What is it then? I was determined to find out. And I did.
The first important thing to understand is that everything in the universe is energy, in one form or another. We are all energy. Our thoughts transmit this energy with a unique vibrational signature. We are masters at reading the energy of other human beings, and responding accordingly. Unless you develop awareness in this area, it's happening unconsciously.
Why do they leave?
We learn from two sources - our environment, and our experiences. Very often these two sources seem to impress upon us that life is a struggle. Our parents - their struggles make deep impression on the psyche. What we learn is that in order to deserve a love relationship we have to give in and give up….ourselves. And this is actually what causes loss of love.
If you fall in love and cannot keep your energy centered around yourself, your partner will leave. This is a law, as sure as sunrise and sunset.
Some people suffer a whole lifetime captured in this pattern - the same energy will bring the same result, over and over and over. If you are serious about mastering your love life, you HAVE to master the art of keeping your energy centered and aligned at all times. So how do you do this?
The art of Positive Selfishness.
In your mind, build a fabulous pedestal in granite or marble, in the middle of a town square - a pedestal with space for only one icon or idol. Place yourself on this pedestal. 'You' in gold, or platinum or titanium or whatever you wish. Does this bring home a message?
Stop focussing on - does he/she like me? will he mind if i say this/ do this….STOP! And start listening to the voice within…it will tell you how YOU are feeling.
Let your emotions be your guide. If you are getting feelings of sadness or discomfort in a relationship, take yourself serious! Don't hesitate to communicate with your partner over this, and don't hesitate to end the relationship if required.
Never turn your existing life and routine upside down for your lover, like cancelling appointments to accomodate him/ her unless it's really necessary. Don't neglect other areas of your life such as your work/ study/ sport/ children etc. Make it a habit not to think of your lover when you are doing other things. Live in the moment!
The Essential Nature of the Universe
( This may not seem relevant - but it is!! It will get you in alignment to ALLOW and RECEIVE )
We live in a dynamic, ever-changing universe. Just look out of your window! Is it ever the same? Seasons change, winds turn, trees grow, clouds come and go….and yet we human beings crave for certainty to give us a safe feeling. The truth is - change and uncertainty are the essential nature of the universe. When you accept this, you align yourself WITH the universal forces, instead of against.
You have to understand that this uncertainty is not your enemy, it is your best friend. This uncertainty is unlimited potential - it is the zero-setting for all manifestation. The Indian yogis understand it better than anyone else, they are the masters at this. My years in India have given me a wealth I cannot express in words.
Life is a healthy, free flowing river. When you let go and join the flow of life, trusting the current, it will take you to new places, new encounters, new people, new loves. When you pine and long for a person from your past, you get stuck and block the flow of life-force. The very things you want move away from you, simply because you want them, and your alignment set to negative.
Let's get one thing clear. Uncertainty in this context does not mean doubt, it refers to the ever-changing, never-static quality of the universe.
SO you want to be a manifestation master - you have to stand on this uncertainty - not only embrace it , but use it as a TOOL and as an opportunity. If the universe is renewing itself every moment, it's your golden chance to renew yourself. Yesterday's apartment can be turned into tomorrow's mansion. Yesterday's rejection, into adoration today….
When you are pining and longing for a person, you are NOT loving them, you are indulging in a personal party of misery and lack - therefore you are not transmitting vibrations of love. The more of this energy you send out, the more it will repel this person fom you.
If you truly LOVE a person, what does it matter where they are, with whom they are, as long as they are happy? You may certainly wish and intend that they be with you, but if you are jealous, hateful, fearful, the person receives each of these vibrations. So….let go, with love !!
When you combine clear intention with detachment, you get what you want.
intention + let go = receive
But this let-go…it has to come from deep within, it has to become a life belief.
So, to get your ex back-
1) Stop the longing - it is a self-destructive vibration (that reaches the ex).
2) Make the intention that you want him/her back, release this intention into the universe.
3) Then forget all about it.
4) Wipe your life-slate clean and blank.
5) Make a new intention - I enjoy a fabulous love-life - with a new love!! ja, ja :-)))
( sounds contradictory and disloyal - but this is vital - it puts out the signal that you're a healthy spirit )
6) Practice the art of positive selfishness.
7) Plunge into life - in every area - live in the moment, to the very fullest!!
That's it!
And believe me, as I got happy and strong in my own life, the man who had walked away started to come back - slowly. When he first began to make contact, he was careful, as if he was almost afraid of the energy he had experienced before. But this time it was a different energy, an attractive one. Very soon he started to contact me daily, and still does. As for me, I have changed. I have made no move towards him. I do answer one out of 5 of his messages. He's really crazy about me. At this point I commit to nothing. The choice is mine to make!
* A word about RS - You can try it if you feel attracted to do so. I have. It worked. I don't use it anymore - I don't feel the need. The above-mentioned formula works better and balances you in all areas of life.
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Permalink Reply by Niaz on -
Hi guys, Hi Mallica, Sad To Glad, Shaun, christopher, brokenheart and everybody on this wonderful, thread. I've been reading this thread for days now and I'm now on page 104 but I felt I come and say hello and tell you you all have helped me so much by your words so far... My case is so much like many of you (I'll explain it later...) the most difficult thing for me is to let go.... whenever I try not to go to his internet pages, new pix n news, I can only go on for 2 days, on the third.... I feel absolutely anxious, needy, etc and I jump n check out his page, then I feel relaxed(if there is no news or new pix with other women) or angry, sad etc, if I see anything which tells me he is living his life, enjoying it with others... We were together for 3 years... Well... what must I do to get rid of my anxiety of losing him? to get rid of my thirst for checking out his news, pix... The last time we talked, it seemed like he was just a distant friend for me n no more, with no emotions towards me but before that, we were madly in love, he had even moved from his country to mine to be with me, to live with me, then after 2 years when he once returned to his country for vacation, he stayed there... some friends told me later that some of his female friends (old university friends had met him in an exhibition,he had told them all about me n then they had tried to influence him to leave me, they had somehow changed his mind about me, without even knowing me, n they had kinda managed to do so...) well he disappeared for a few months, I sent him several emails, tried to contact his phone... he finally returned my call but he was cold n he told me he wanted to stay there n that we can be only friends... (sorry for my English, its not my native language) What must I do? I want him back, I feel betrayed, I must get rid of this feelings but I surely do not deserve to be treated like this, without any explanation, any reason,... I want him back but I dunno how... I want to get rid of my low vibrations, I know I am full of being needy, wanting, yearning, waiting, sadness... but I need a sign u know, Please guys help me with ur ideas...
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Permalink Reply by Niaz on
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Oh and btw, whenever I check out his page, all my energy just goes aways, before the page opens I hear my heart's beating,,, NO MATTER HOW MUCH I TRY TO BE CALM, TO RELAX, TO LET GO... I just dunno why I can't... I know its the fear of reading some news about him being with another one, especially one of those who made him stay ... or also him being busy with his life n enjoying himself while he left me here to be sad n be alone...I can't control my emotions no matter how much I try... (and whatever good thoughts I usually work on during the day, just disapearss whenever I check his site, and I just cant help checking out his site every 2 days cos if I don't, I feel so anxious and the focus of my mind shifts to him not me...) and I know these are the things which block my manifestation... plz help me... and dear Mallica, May I possibly join your group? I know it'd help me a great deal... thanks
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Permalink Reply by eva on -
thanx for your advice, Mallica.
Will it be better if I think that whoever gonna be the man in my life, him or anyman, he will be the best man that universe choose for me?
I luv reading this thread, it's good to know that i'm not alone facing the same problem. I laugh everytime i read someone checking on their ex's in the net ( I did too). It's funny that we conciously hurt ourselves and feel stupid after that.
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Permalink Reply by Niaz on
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Is any of you guys still checking this thread...? Please if you could guide me, I'd truly appreciate it...
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Permalink Reply by Secret1973 on -
Hi Niaz,
I have read your story, and I would suggest this FIRST (before you try to bring him back)...there is a website called HypnosisDownloads.com...go to that site, they have a hypnosis download called "Getting Over A Failed Relationship"...it is an MP3 that you download. IT WORKS, I have it and have used it.
Basicly, you dim the lights, relax, and then listen to the MP3...it takes about 15 minutes...you listen to the MP3 and it hypnotizes you into releasing the anxiety and depsression etc, about the breakup...it is amazing.
Listen to it every day for 30 days and you will be OVER that relationship. THEN, you can put the intention out there that your ex will come back to you. And from there, there is a good chance that he will come back.
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Permalink Reply by Jacqueline on -
How does this work for someone you lost and whom you cannot find? I have been thinking of and looking for someone for 14 years.
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Permalink Reply by Secret1973 on
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Hi Jacqueline,
The LOA can work to establish contact with people that you cannot find.
Have you tried using intelius.com? It is a service that finds people based on first and last name and where they once lived.
Also - if you hire a Private Investigator, they can usually track someone down (secretly) and let you know where they are living, if they are now married, etc.
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Permalink Reply by Jacqueline on
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Hi Secret1973,
I appreciate your response. Yes I have checked intellius.com. I printed several reports about a month ago. but have not acted on them yet..they have been sitting on my computer. I have hesitated i guess because i wasnt sure what to say should i get a family member or wife on the phone..
That fact that you mention that website as somone recommended to me might mean its the way for me to go.. in finding him. Thank you.
Regards
Jacqueline
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Permalink Reply by Mallica on -
Secret1973 -
Niaz has contacted me, joined my group and her questions are being answered.
If you want to recommend any products/websites/downloads please start your own discussion, do not do it here.
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Permalink Reply by Secret1973 on
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Ok, I am only trying to help, I dont receive any financial gain from these recommendations. I wont talk about other websites any more. If you look at my message history I have been on PI for several months and I do not usually recommend other websites unless I feel it can help someone.
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Permalink Reply by frog on -
i am curious as to why someone cannot recommend a website or something that can help someone? what is wrong with doing it on this thread? I realize that you are the one who began this thread, but surely someone else's input can be just as helpful?
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