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How to be happy? Just fed up with circumstances not changing, yet everyone else in my reality seems fine. Loving partners, jobs, cars, friends etc and i have none of it despite knowing LOA for 8 years. It just doesn’t make sense. I ask people what they believe and how they think and feel and its the opposite of what you would expect to attract things. Moany, negative and have self esteem problems and are always banging on about the same thing never letting ho but they still get it sooner or later. How? And how to be happy knowing you will never get any of it? 

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I have been forcing things to change, so I have more trust they will. Law of Attraction seems to be easier when I believe part of my effort is making the changes too. Think, "Nothing ventured, nothing gained."

Thanks Laura. I do make the effort to apply for jobs and go out socialising. I’m not trying to just wish it in to reality. I have been volunteering and really enjoy it. :)

“Moany, negative and have self-esteem problems, and are always banging on about the same thing never letting go but they still get it sooner or later.”

They are a perfect example, that getting what you want does not create happiness.

Which means, your happiness does not come from the stuff.

And also means, your unhappiness doesn’t come from not having the stuff.

Your emotions come from your thoughts, not the conditions.

You can’t be happy at first You’re trying to reach for an emotion you don’t gave access to.

But you can feel a little relief. You can focus more on making peace with and accepting where you are. Meditating more, and doing other things, just because they help you feel better.

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Thanks Brian, but I disagree on a few things. External circumstances can make you happy. I began volunteering 2 days a week at a primary school and I absolutely love it. It has made me happy and takes my mind off things and stops me overthinking. I have applied for many jobs in schools and asked the universe if it could possibly keep me on there ready for September but it has been 3 months and no one has mentioned me staying on there. Anyways, schools are off for the summer holidays and I am stuck in my house. I do get out a bit for a walk or swimming but it just gets boring on my own. I would be so happy if I met the guy of my dreams. We could go out together and I would look forward to weekends and organising trips and holidays. I did make peace with where I was about a year ago. I moved to a different city which was lovely and quiet, as I felt I was being pressured by everybody to be what they want me to bed. So when I was there I wasn’t stressing about jobs, money, friends, lovers or anything. I was just living in the moment and watching things that made me laugh. I would go on long walks around the neighbourhood. Just relaxing and felt peaceful. After about a year I came back home for Christmas and realised I felt better around people than being on my own, which is why after Christmas I moved back home. I began volunteering and I am going back in September to do a qualification in Teaching Assistant. Back before I was aware of LOA I wasn’t rushing for anything. I was doing my work experience and chilling out. I had desires but I wasn’t bothered if I never got them. So why didn’t I attract them?
Sorry, but I need clarification on this. Okay, so I decided I wanted to drive...not for anyone else but for myself, so I started driving lessons, passed my theory 3rd time and was ready for my test. When I was doing my mock test with my instructor, he asked me to read several number plates and I couldn’t read any of them. He told me to go back to the opticians so I did and he said they were fine. I also went to several others and also an eye specialist and they said my eyes were fine and i can read the smallest letters in the opticians room so he cannot understand why I can’t see it outside. Anyways, I took the note from the eye specialist to the driving agency to see if they would let me go ahead with the test even though I couldn’t see the number plate. They said no. So I attempted to read a number plate at the driving agency one last time. I asked the universe for support. I visualised reading a number plate and driving and how happy I felt being able to drive etc. So I was very positive and read the number plate. The woman said It wasn’t right. So I tried another one and it was still wrong. I went to the numberplate and realised I had indeed read it wrong. Why would the universe do this? I was so happy driving and spent lots of money on theory, lessons, building confidence and was almost ready to pass and then this happens? I have even considered laser eye surgery but I don’t have a job at the minute so cannot afford it. Why would this happen?

Do you possibly have dyslexia?

Hi Laura, no I don't have dyslexia. Why did you ask that?

“External circumstances can make you happy.”

It’s your thoughts about them that make you happy.

For example, two people could get cookie dough ice cream, and that makes one person happy, and one person not happy. The only way the same circumstance could cause two different emotional reactions, is based on the difference in the individual’s perception of it. 
Otherwise, both people would be forced to feel the same way, about the same condition.

Also, when you believe circumstances can make you happy, then you also practice the disempowering belief that circumstances can make you unhappy. That reinforces your feelings of powerlessness. When you understand your happiness comes from your thoughts, then you feel empowered, because you always have control over that.

“I began volunteering 2 days a week at a primary school and I absolutely love it. It has made me happy and takes my mind off things and stops me overthinking.”

Your thoughts about it made you happy, you just didn’t realize that is what you were doing.

If you went in to work, and focused most of your attention on everything you don’t like about it, you would quickly be unhappy. The job wouldn’t’ have changed, only your perception of it would have.

When you think about what you don’t want, you offer resistance and feel worse. The job helps you focus on what you do want, which stops you from thinking about what you don’t want, and that is why you feel better.

“I would be so happy if I met the guy of my dreams.”

As a teacher, if a student came to you and said, “I am unhappy because I am single. I can’t be happy until I’m in a relationship. If I just got the man of my dreams, then I would be so happy!”

What would you tell her? That her happiness is dependent on the man and the relationship?

“. . . it just gets boring on my own.”

You feel bored when you focus more on what you don’t want, than what you do want.

“I did make peace with where I was about a year ago.”

When you are making peace today, you won’t feel bored.

“I had desires but I wasn’t bothered if I never got them. So why didn’t I attract them?”

You attracted feeling relaxed and satisfied, which is what you really want.

You didn’t attract them because either you weren’t feeling satisfied, or what you wanted wasn’t a match to your satisfaction.

“I was so happy driving and spent lots of money on theory, lessons, building confidence and was almost ready to pass and then this happens?”

You were basing your happiness on the outcome. You weren’t happy, just for the sake being happy. You needed that happiness to lead to something. You were practicing conditional happiness, instead of unconditional happiness, and feeling good regardless.

Thanks Brian. I understand that it’s your perception on things that can make you happy or unhappy, but you can’t go through life thinking everything is okay when it isn’t and you don’t have anything. That’s just delusional. I actually know people like that-they get shit on all the time, don’t have anything yet are so happy, and I just feel bad for them. And no, I wouldn’t tell a student her happiness is dependant on a man, and I also wouldn’t tell her she will be okay on her own, especially in the long run, especially if she wanted kids. I started driving because I wanted to, not to make me happy. I was already excited and happy about driving. It wasn’t a big deal if I couldn’t drive or I didn’t pass, what really annoyed me is I put so much effort into it, asked the universe for assistance, spent money etc only to find I couldn’t see the number plate. I can live with never driving or having a car, it’s just how much effort I out into it and how LOA should have given me an advantage to pass. When I ask other people what they believe and how they feel about themselves it is always negative. My sister for example-she was bullied badly and had low self esteem. She could’t relax about anything. She panicked during driving and was so upset she wouldn’t pass yet she did. She didn’t think she was worth a relationship yet she went online and met a great guy and they are still together now with a baby, jobs they live and ready to move into a nice house. She said she cannot believe this happened for her. Don’t get me wrong, I love them all and I am so happy for her but how did it happen? I know other people like that too. Yet they attract lots if things! How? Are they letting go enough? Are they just in the right vibration? No. I know these people personally, well most of them, to know they bang on about the same stuff and put themselves down but they attract lots of stuff..which is what really frustrates me, and make me regret ever believing in the LOA. My reality never did, and still doesn’t reflect my beliefs. It’s only since the last few years have I felt my appearance is horrible, felt depressed and disappointed about LOA and that I am not good enough. That’s because everyone I know has had or is with a lover. Has friends, a job, car, kids and I don’t. Honest. Just me around my neighbourhood. Knowing of the LOA too, I felt like a god, that I could do anything and I don’t have anything. Family have noticed I am not the confident, outgoing, bubbly person I used to be, and cannot understand why things haven’t worked out for me, as they know I was very positive and confident for my future. So someone tell me why everyone else has supposedly attracted good things but I haven’t?

“You can’t go through life thinking everything is okay when it isn’t and you don’t have anything.”

Agreed, because that is too different from your current practiced thoughts. That is why you focus on feeling a little better, which is different than feeling good, or thinking everything is okay. You can’t think everything is okay when it’s not, but you can help yourself feel a little better.

For example, when you feel depressed, you can focus on feeling anger and blame, because that helps you feel better.

“What really annoyed me is I put so much effort into it.”

You only feel annoyed when you put effort (i.e. action you don’t enjoy) if you wanted that effort to lead to a specific outcome. When you’re doing something you enjoy, with no insistence in an outcome, you’re satisfied in the journey, then you don’t view anything as a waste, because you got the manifestation you really wanted, which was satisfying action.

“LOA should have given me an advantage to pass.”

Yes, when you have no need in a specific outcome. That’s a key part. Being unconditional, and feeling better regardless of the outcome.

“Put themselves down, but they attract lots of stuff, which is what really frustrates me.”

Your frustration is guidance from Source, that you are thinking about what you don’t want. Thinking, “Why are they supported and being negative, but I’m not, and I was positive? This is bullshit! Maybe I’ll just start being negative like them and get more stuff.”

“Knowing of the LOA too, I felt like a god, that I could do anything and I don’t have anything.”

An essential part of understanding the Law of Attraction is, it is about being unconditional. Unconditional emotion.

It’s not, “I’m going to feel better, so that I can get my stuff, change the conditions and get the outcomes I want.” (This is what a lot of people believe).

It’s, “I’m going to feel better, and feel relief, because nothing is more important than how I feel.”

Well said Brian!

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