Due to some unavoidable personal reason if you think you have wronged someone ( by disappearing) how do you undo it or overcome it ?
I am not mad at myself at all because I know I did my best but I believe that the other party might be upset and unforgiving. I would be so if I were in their place.
I am aware of the theory but I am looking for experiences where people actually manifested acceptance with little or no effort.
Appreciate the help :)
When you accept, that they aren’t accepting, then you allow acceptance.
When you don’t need them to forgive, because you accept how they feel, and don’t need them to change, then you allow acceptance.
Let me see if I got this right.
So when I become ok with them not accepting me , which is not feeling negative emotions like fear or disappointment but simply feeling positive anticipation for the possibility that they might accept that is when things will change?
Also, you don’t even have to feel positive anticipation if that seems too hard for you. You could just focus on something else that feels better and you would allow acceptance.
Thank you so much.
This is a work related situation so acceptance and forgiveness would mean getting an opportunity to work with them. My main intention is to get this opportunity and the acceptance and forgiveness is the only thing stopping me .
Do I have to come to a place of not needing this opportunity?
Yes. Because if you need it, you’re making your emotions dependent on the conditions.
When you feel better unconditionally, you have no resistance, and allow it.
I will work on that now :)
Thanks for the suggestions. Appreciate it :)
Have you heard of the phrase, "What people think about you is none of your business."
Yes. But this is different. I wouldn’t bother myself so much if I hadn’t had an ulterior motive behind it. LOL
Thanks for responding :)