Hey! Can anyone help me please?

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Permalink Reply by illusions on December 2, 2008 at 4:47am

Hi Seranya :) (beautiful name by the way!)

I believe that no-one really knows the answer to that question unless they've done it ;) So, it's about what makes sense to the individual. I'll share with you some of my thoughts on it.....

* I believe that we are infinite beings with Power beyond what our conscious minds can comprehend. We have chosen to enter into consciousness, in a physical world with various limits. I see it as going on a camping trip. When a person goes camping, depending on how intense an experience they want, they will choose to leave behind various conveniences. In this case, they are essentially creating the "rules" of the experience they wish to have. For example, they may decide they want to experience what it's like to have to hunt and fish for their food, and therefore, not take any canned food with them. They may also wish to experience the challenge of making a fire from scratch, in which case they won't take any matches with them.

So, they have decided to put those limits on themselves - no matches or lighter, and no canned food. This means that the rules of the game include their having to find their own food, and to make a fire from scratch.

Now here's the REAL challenge - imagine that that person had decided he wanted to REALLY have the FULL, Authentic experience, and so he took a medication that erased his memory temporarily. So that once he arrived at the camping location, he would forget where he really comes from, and he would believe that the camping experience is all there is. That way he can fully emerse himself in the experience, until the medication wears off and it's time to go home.

And now.... now that he has no recollection of where he came from, that lighters and matches and canned food even exist... now, he struggles to find food, and he struggles to make a fire, and he wonders why there isn't an easier way.... and so, he fully experiences the experience. :)

However... it's possible that he put some matches in the bottom of a bag somewhere "just in case", but of course he doesn't remember doing this. And other campers are all struggling to make fire.... and this camper has the crazy idea that there's a way that you can just strike a small stick against the side of a box once, and get fire Instantly!! Now, other campers of course pooh-pooh this - it's the most rediculous idea they've ever heard. And it's Impossible!!

Now, here's the thing... it IS impossible if you are playing by the rules of the game. And the rules of the game are that you have to make fire from scratch. BUT, if WE are creating our own experiences, and WE are making the rules, and WE have chosen to take the potion that puts us fully into the experience....... then WE can choose to change those rules - unless our conscious mind is wanting matches, when we wanted the Authentic experience of "roughing it" so much that we didn't put matches in the bottom of our bag "just in case". ;) In this scenario, the feeling of wishing there was a way to light a fire instantly, is part of the experience. If we wanted the Authentic experience Completely and therefore didn't put the matches in the bottom of the bag... then it is indeed impossible within this game scenario, to light a fire instantly.

* Apart from our intentions before we entered this physical experience, one of the tools in place, to keep the game running - to keep our consciousness believing in the experience as it's been set up - is cellular memory, and the memory passed from one generation to the next. The programming that is in every cell. This is Extremely Powerful programming. So that, even if I manage to convince my conscious mind... and even my subconscious mind, that I can fly, my human programming is designed to KNOW that I can't fly (even if it actually IS possible).

Having said this, I also believe that all probabilities exist, and we already switch from one to the other, adopting as we do, the memory line for that probability. And therefore, it is HIGHLY possible that in one (or more) probability, you CAN and DO fly. But, because when you switch proababilities again, you adopt the memory line of that probability, you won't realise this. However... sometimes, a fragment of memory from one probability is carried over, resulting in things like de-ja-vu, "I'm sure I put that there", and the situations where one person KNOWS they said something and the other person KNOWS they heard something different. These "glitches" are usually hastely explained away by logic which immediately kicks in to make sense of the incident within the confines of the current probability.

* I believe that if you have a Powerful urge to do something - which feels good - it should be possible to do it. And the way to do it, is to follow what feels good in the current moment, moment-to-moment. This leads you on a treasure hunt trail to what you want - no matter how "impossible" it may seem to yourself or to others, and no matter how unrelated the trail may seem to the final goal. Following what feels good in this moment, moment-to-moment, no matter how unrelated it may seem to what you want, is the fastest and most reliable way to get to where you want to be - even if it feels like a detour. ;)

I hope this helps.
Love and Light and Magic xxx
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Permalink Reply by Madeline on December 13, 2008 at 4:55pm

What a great post, I love the example!!

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Permalink Reply by Melissa Sutton on December 2, 2008 at 5:22am

Things are only considered impossible by people if they have not seen or heard of it being done. Once upon a time it seemed imposible to create light at night time without the use of fire; for man to fly or to walk on the moon; to travel into outerspace...........Its these people with these impossible dreams that makes this world as it is today.
Think and dream the impossible!

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Permalink Reply by Seranya Myor on December 2, 2008 at 8:32am

Hey, Illusions!

Thank you for your reply! It helped me very much!

I'm having some technical problems with this site, so I can't send private messages, but do you mind giving me your email so that I could talk to you more about this subject?

Thanks again! :)

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Permalink Reply by Milou on December 2, 2008 at 8:37am

Well, the way I see it is that one thing is only impossible *such as flying* when another law forbids it *the law of gravity for example*. Would your wish be in contradiction with other laws of the Universe? But then again...'miracles' happen.

But I might be wrong. That's just my view on it..

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Permalink Reply by ariesx on December 2, 2008 at 11:49am

"To those who ground me, take a message back from me- Tell them I'm defying gravity"- Elphaba
Ask yourself if I embraced the paradigm of no limits what might I create?

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Permalink Reply by Kelly on December 2, 2008 at 2:32pm

okay, I JUST changed my subheading on my page to "i'm through accepting limits, 'cause someone says they're so", and the next page I go to is this one, and I read this comment! like attracts like, eh?

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Permalink Reply by Mary K Weinhagen on December 2, 2008 at 1:43pm

Hi Seranya...

You are only limited by YOUR beliefs.

So maybe the real question is... can you move beyond the 'wishful' thinking and truly believe and claim this thing you 'can't' tell us about?

I just read a very simple book from a Scientist that tells you how to apply The Secret (Law of Attraction)
It's really good and amazingly empowering (and also really inexpensive)...you might find it valuable too. The Secret Behind the Secret

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Permalink Reply by Silver Girl on December 2, 2008 at 1:50pm

I found something on the abraham-hicks forum about this:

Participant: I ask for something and I can do it, correct?

Abraham: You ask for something and you can do it, correct!

Participant: What I want to do is to be able to fly, to be able to levitate to be able to do things that people say are unable or impossible

Abraham: When you suspend your disbelief by paying attention to those who don’t believe then all things are possible. That’s the trick….the trick is: identifying what you want, achieving vibrational alignment with it and then it must be. Because there is no more powerful law, even the Law of Gravity, in all of the Universe, than the Law of Attraction. So when you want and there is not vibrational variance between what you want and what you emanate in a day to day basis then IT IS!
There are all kinds of things that are happening today that at one time every one on the planet said it could not be…and this is just another one of those….
Now you can tell how close you are to believe in all things are possible by how you felt with that answer….if you said “yeah, right…” you won’t be flying anytime soon. (fun)
And there are all kinds of it, and we are not trying to take you out of your physical experience. There are all kinds of “out of the body” experiences that in the meantime are extremely satisfying, because your reality and your point of consciousness is the one that you choose it to be….So, sometimes rather than trying to suspend all beliefs that so many people are clamoring around just modify your desire enough to accommodate that desire…in other words, how much flying have you been doing in your “out-of-body”, in your dream state? Do you fly on a regular basis?

Participant: sometimes, and sometimes I just jump very high…

Abraham: Well, the fact you’re doing that it means you are in the vibrational vicinity. In other words, you want something enough that is becoming a vibrational reality that you are then deciphering and experiencing. And you are going to help us take you further by helping you to understand that this reality that you all are so fixated upon, that you’re so certain, is a reality “knock on wood” real, real, real reality is a vibrational interpretation. There are billions of people living billions of different realities, and what hang you on is when you say: “I want MY reality to be agreed on by others” That’s what most of you mean by reality…I want them to see me flying, I want them to test me flying, I want them to agree with me that I am flying…And we say, if you can leave them out of your flying equation and just fly to satisfy your own intentions, in time, other will be able to do it too. And there will be a time that it won’t be just the odd man doing it, but the normal man that is doing it.

What about that? Do you care about flying?

Audience: YES!

Abraham: Do you want to fly to impress others? There is a rub in that, isn’t there? Any time you are wanting to accomplish something because you have given birth to a sincere desire and now your chronic though, your habit of thought matches it, IT MUST BE, IT IS LAW! But you will mess up your vibration any single time when you factor in other people’s response to your desire. Because you can’t control their response and when you try you don’t match your own vibration! You can’t control their response, and if you care about what their response is you hold yourself in vibrational discord to your desire.
So what that may have felt, may have sounded that conversation we just had, may have sounded like a silly thing to intend, we adored the conversation around it because it gives us ability to add emphasis on how you create anything. There are all kind of things that people around you are living that you also think are impossible for you! You gotta get over that! And until you do, IT IS impossible for you! They’re not living it, they’re not flying, they’re not soaring, they’re not succeeding, they’re not excelling because they’re different from you or because they’re deserving or because the were born in a better time and place or under a different star…
The reason others are succeeding while you sometimes are not, it is because there is no vibrational variance between their desire and their expectation, while may be between yours.


-Abraham_


Excerpted from Toronto Workshop 9/20/2008.

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Permalink Reply by Seranya Myor on December 2, 2008 at 2:08pm

Thank you all for your replies! Let me clear you out here, maybe you could understand better what I mean... I really don't feel comfortable telling you the exact wish I have, because you'll probably think I'm crazy... even my own family thought that when they heard, so...
What if my wish affects others, too? Will I still be able to accomplish it? I know you can't influence others' life. Hmm.... how can I explain this better... Let's say I want to live somewherelse... and I don't mean another country, I mean a hidden world... that it is thought it doesn't exist... like a magical fanatsy place... (I guess you're already laughing by now...). It's not another universe, it's just another place that some people can see and others can't. I want to live in that place and be part of the story... Hmm... I blew my cover... ok, ok, it's a story... and it's about a magical place... what if my wish would be to be a character in that story, and go through everything that's written there?
And what if that fantasy place doesn't exist (although I doubt it...) could I create it? But there are thousands of other characters involved in the story, how can I "create" them, too? Wouldn't that mean I would interffere with other people's lives? That's what's confusing me... If ANYTHING is possible, is it possible for me to attract that world to me? Even if it... doesn't exist? :) I mean... it would mean I would change the world... it sounds weird...

So now you know my wish... there! I told you! Now you probably think I'm really crazy because I want to be a book character and bring to life the whole story.
But can you please help me out here?

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Permalink Reply by Mary K Weinhagen on December 2, 2008 at 2:18pm

Personally I don't find that crazy... though I confess, I might be crazy myself. LOL

And my answer and question above still stands... can you become a match to it?

The fact that it involves other 'characters' isn't a problem as those who are equally attracted will be there! ;-)

P.S. We really can (and DO) 'pretend' things into 'reality'... ALL IS POSSIBLE!

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Permalink Reply by Seranya Myor on December 2, 2008 at 3:45pm

Thanks for your reply, Mary K!

I can't say I expected this... I'm actually surprised that someone takes my wish seriously. But thank you again for the encouraging words!

And to answer your question, yes, I am ready to move on from "wishing" to "becoming", the question is... how?
I mean... I've been visualizing myself as a specific character from that story ever since I read the first book when I was 10. And back then I actually didn't care so much about what others thought, so I believed more strongly in that than I do now... Now I guess I wish it more, much more then I did then, but it seems further...
It's so annoying knowing that you can have it, that you can actually grab it and feel it, to know it's just an inch apart from you and not being able to do anything to reach out for it! I know that I can visualize and concentrate on it, and so I DO something, but it just feels like I'm standing still. I feel that even though I'm following the steps I should by the law, I'm not doing enough.

Oh, and what I meant by influencing others was that I don't want to follow the story exactly as it is. I wanna change it a bit... So the "characters" would have to change, too... It would mean I'm changing a story that everyone knows in a certain way, to a whole different way! Would that be... I don't know... fair? It's a very popular book, and me changing the stroy I would live in would mean to change the book, too, right?

Also, I wanted to know, how could I actually accomplish this? In case this world doesn't exist (I doubt it, but let's absurdly suppose...) it would mean I will create it... so does the universe really goes round a single person's wish? Can the world change just for one person?
Actually, you make a good point there, I might not be the only crazy person who wishes this... maybe there are some other persons that want the same thing, so it would contribute to the creation of the world (or the attraction of it).

Long story short, if I put it in a simple question: How can I make a story come true? I don't think I ever heard of anyone becoming a book character before, but then, I wouldn't be able to know anyway, would I? The world would change in such a way that it would make the others think this is the way it should be, right?

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