Negative thoughts likely didn't manifest your breakup, so you don't need to worry about them. If you encounter one, acknowledge it and let it go. Worrying about it only causes you to be more fixated upon it.
Instead of worrying about that, try diverging from your current set of expectations. The reason I think you fall down the pattern of thinking negatively and then worrying about that, is because you are unsure of your ability to attract. Keep building your faith, and focus on yourself. Don't track your progress, just live your life as you usually would.
Thankyou for your views.
The reason I said I feel my negative thoughts led to my break up is that this might have happened before as well. My last two relationships didnt last long and it was because of this reason that I have the feelings that this wont work. But right now I have this positive feeling that things will work out.
You are probably right in saying that your feelings towards the relationships led to their endings. It wouldn’t be a sign of your relationships necessarily, but maybe of your own beliefs related to relationships. Perhaps that is also worth exploring further.
I wouldn’t advise you to push your negative thoughts or feelings away. Just let them be. Try and think of where they come from, and work on that instead.
U have to "Turn the other cheek". Abe teaches. Focus away from your fears, affirm until you believe it. "All is well for me romantically, I have peaceful, dependable, great boyfriends that are there for me at all times. And they are faithful."
To me it definitely sounds like it contributed to the break ups, and at best it's causing you unnecessary psychological torture, so regardless it's something important. Look at your fears. What are you afraid of? What are your insecurities? Get clear about it, become aware of them. Question why you feel/believe that is true.You can try journaling and writing down about it.
Feel free to message me for more tips, I have a lot of experience with fear.
Thank you Graysen. I am visualising the type of relationship I want with him, the way people are going to see it and what they are going to tell. Also the amount of negative thoughts have also come down. Moreover I dont dwell too much on this.