How can i stop every single negative thought ?

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Permalink Reply by mike on November 21, 2008 at 7:23am

you have to remember that it doesnt work that simple. i myself try some goofy things sometimes just to see what might happen. for instance, going out unshowered. i always have that "i hope i dont encounter a pretty girl" thought. well guess what. it ALWAYS happens.

on the flipside, if there is something i dont want to do, i will try and pretend that the secret will bring good to it by saying things like "something good will come out of this" and enforcing that to my peers along with me. well sometimes it works, sometimes it doesnt. but i realized the only time it does work is when i am confident from the get go. for example, the powerful fear of seeing that pretty girl. so powerful, so real, that i made it happen. negative thoughts are so much more powerful in daily life. you just have to learn to make the positive ones that instead. try writing it on the wall. i wrote down on my last bank overdraft notice that "the world is mine so take it" and hung it on my celing with intentions of never getting another overdraft fee again. that was over a year ago and i wake daily seeing that. i have not gotten one of those since. not because of some mysterious force but because i believe myself enough to subconsciously control my spending more.

remember that any bit of doubt it being sent to the universe. just believe that you are in control and you did it already and everything is already set in place. and you said it yourself.

All due to that single thought.

forcing out negative thoughts and replacing them with positive doesnt always work. the negative thoughts cannot manifest. you have to LITERALLY have them already replaced with positive ones. it seems just because u hit a bump in the road that you asked for "i hope he doesnt ask for a different format" you keep stumbling the same path due to the negative feelings you got from the result of what you asked.

from what i've found the secret works subconsciously, if you let the conscious mind take over, you will get your negative subconscious results.

i hope i've made sense, this who thing is quite confusing to me sometimes too. i just try and remember that no matter what happens, i asked for it. so if you didn't like the outcome, remember next time not to ask. ;-)

hope this helps!!!


again im new to this, i have been "secret" aware for over 1.5 years now, but i still have trouble grasping the controlled form of it. i seem to have better luck with finding the odities in it such as strange coincidences and the whole "pretty girl thing" so i hope i dont sound like a total fool.

good luck i hope my advice makes as much sense to you as i feel it does to me haha!

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Permalink Reply by Retta on November 21, 2008 at 7:46am

It is the feelings and emotions that you have that have the power to change the vibration you are sending out. You attact by vibration not by thought. Now, thoughts can affect your vibration but I can say all the positive things in the world but if I am still feeling bad, feeling the lack of what I want.........those feelings outweigh any words I am saying.

I think the 'trick' is when you catch yourself thinking a thought that isn't in alignment with what you want say 'THANK YOU..........NOW I am more aware of what I don't want'. Then pivot your thoughts to what you DO WANT. Pushing against the negative thoughts just gives them more power. Recognizing them and then allowing them to pass away is a whole different vibration.

Does that make sense?

Retta

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Permalink Reply by Retta on November 21, 2008 at 7:47am

PS, We NEED the negative the contrast to help us know what we want. If there isn't contrast - what we don't want - we would just sit in one place. There would be no motivation to move forward because everything would feel OK. How boring that would be.

Retta

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Permalink Reply by Awesome on November 21, 2008 at 10:05am

It's always difficult at first when you realize you have this kind of power in the palm of your hands, and then you have to REALIZE THE TRUTH - IT'S IN THE PALM OF YOUR HANDS.....

Tips....It takes practice, practice, practice and most importantly you have to forgive yourself and then THANK YOURSELF for this knowledge.....Now that you have this knowledge, everything changes.....NOW YOU CAN HAVE IT ALL.....

The more practiced you become, the easier you will be on yourself, because eventually, you will have forgiven you and moved to LOVING YOU and the moment you are able to LOVE YOU, EVERYTHING CHANGES.....

Be strong, GET OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY.......

Namaste,
Awesome

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Permalink Reply by kevin connolly on November 21, 2008 at 1:22pm

Try not to be that strict on yourself. While you should pursue to resolving negative thinking for obvious reasons, being hypersensitive to the topic only attracts more of them and their consequences. I heard someone say this line. I like it and I hope you do too. It goes: "Don't be too careful you might hurt yourself."

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Permalink Reply by Princess7 on November 21, 2008 at 2:33pm

clear your mind every now and then.
it does work for me. :D

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Permalink Reply by Kahu on November 21, 2008 at 3:25pm

Hi Futuristic

One of the problems with the way LOA is presented sometimes is that it becomes a job and people end up fighting negativity which is exactly what you don't want to do.

Try not to be hard on yourself and feel guilty for the way you are now because nearly all of what you believe now has come from your environment by osmosis and you weren't aware of the effects of it.

The subconscious mind works on patterns or habits. When we are well practiced at manifesting situations be they positive or negative (using whatever standards you do to judge) it only takes a small amount of attention to manifest them because we are very confident and have high expectation of being able to do that.

When we are learning to manifest different situations, like learning an instrument or new skill, we have to think about it consciously until we get so confident that it becomes automatic. Also, time is only real to the conscious mind which changes perception of "how long" things take.

You have begun a process of learning a new way of thinking and living so go easy on yourself and give yourself time to walk before you try to run. Pick some small situations that you want to improve and work on those first to gain confidence before you try to "fix" your WHOLE LIFE. Your whole life is too big a concept and contains too much information for the subconscious to work with at one time until you get real good at this and that can take many lifetimes.

Aloha
Kahurangi

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Permalink Reply by Futuristic Boy on November 21, 2008 at 10:10pm

yes all of you make sense. and thanks everyone for reading and replying with useful suggestions.

I have also experienced that it works from subconscious level. and this means that my subconscious is sending lot of negative vibrations. I ll definitely change that.

So how to do it?

I am trying to pivoting. what are the other things that i can try?

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Permalink Reply by Kahu on November 21, 2008 at 10:46pm

The Dynamind Technique developed by Serge Kahili King is the simplest, easiest to learn and use way of accessing the subconscious mind to create change that I have so far encountered. There is a free download explaining the process available at http://www.huna.org/html/dmind.html.

The technique is further explained with many, many example in his book Healing for the Millions avalable at www.huna.net.

I teach workshops on some of the techniques that come out of the ancient Hawaiian traditions also. They have been translated into modern western frameworks and so are very easy to learn.

Aloha
Kahurangi

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