would you please help me ?my ex came back to my country for Christmas , I heard from one of his friends and I am sure, we didn't break up officially but after he gone (for 3 months) he was in contact with me only via every 10 days email like just friend and he didn't told me coming back even. I know he is here for about two weeks and I am so missed him and very depress , every minute I am waiting for his call since 3 days ago , I called him several times but his cellphone was off .If I off my cellphone for 1 day and do what you told is it help he contact me?
Worrying about what you want or trying to force it to happen slows your experience of it down. Reduce your stress and you'll have a better feeling experience.
The reason why switching off the cell phone "worked" was because, as JC said (over 2 years ago!), he stopped being DESPERATE about hearing from her by accepting he was not going to hear from her anymore. By taking his focus off it completely, he was no longer resistant about it. And because his desire already had momentum, it just happened without him doing anything.
So it is not about switching your phone off; it is about switching off your worry and desperation. Anything that you can do that will help you with that will be good for you could make you available for your ex to contact you.
thank you so much , you made clear this for me , yes you right I am so worry and very desperate , I listen to your advice and thanks GOD you are here :)