How to become attractive?

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Permalink Reply by Mary K Weinhagen on December 3, 2008 at 5:11pm

Appreciation is SO Attractive ;-)

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Permalink Reply by Flowerpatch on December 3, 2008 at 5:49pm

Confidence is extremely attractive. :)

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Permalink Reply by Clarice on December 3, 2008 at 7:27pm

I agree. And there is so much one can do to feel more confident- working out is one of my favorite.

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Permalink Reply by Nicole on December 3, 2008 at 7:22pm

Hello,
I think the first thing you need to realize is you already are beautiful, I know that sounds cliche and cheesy, but it isn't. Who else on Earth looks like you (unless you have a twin, but even then your twin will have minor differences!!!).

I also agree with the last two posts, a healthy dose of confidence can be attractive. So stop looking to other people for what is or is not beautiful, accept you are already beautiful and it will shine more brightly on the outside.

Nicole =)

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Permalink Reply by Bora on December 3, 2008 at 9:54pm

Well, for me. When a woman wears the Playboy Bunny Logo on her shirt, I immediately am
attracted to her. I fantasize about "doing it" with her. That's silly I know but that Playboy Bunny
makes a woman more alluring. I don't know what to say for a man to be more attractive, but I like
this quote from the movie BRAVEHEART:

"Men don't follow titles, they follow courage."-- William Wallace

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Permalink Reply by Yola on December 4, 2008 at 11:25pm

well, i must say that was very honest of you to say. hehe

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Permalink Reply by Divine Muse on December 3, 2008 at 10:08pm

I agree about confidence, but I have found that if you start doing things that make you feel good you start to become more attractive, because you're loving yourself. And you're not doing it to attract some guy or get another person's attention. You're doing it for you.

Me for instance, I started following my face cleansing routine again. It may seem insignificant to some, but in my mind I'm taking care of my face, because I know I look good and I'm appreciative of what I got.

Darn that word, appreciative. I need to start using another one. Well, if that didn't make any sense let me know. I'll try to explain further.

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Permalink Reply by eileen on December 4, 2008 at 12:39pm

Hi MeMe!!! Your question: "....how do you become sexy and attractive?" Well!!!....you Already ARE Attractive!!! Everyone is Attractive from the inside out. It depends on how you feel INSIDE that accomplishes it's Manifestation to the physical 'outside' You! Hypothetically, if you are ill with the 'flu bug' and you simply feel 'Sucked Out' and 'Haggard' though you Know you have to get up and perhaps purchase some items from the grocery store! If you stay In the mindset that you're Sucked Out and feeling not-so-up-to-par....others will not only See this on your physical but you will Show this from the Inside of you as well! i.e...cranky, nose running down your chin...etc.. Now, if you dress appropriately, tell yourself your going to be 'just fine' and be happy as you walk down the isles of the store....your strength from within you will make you attractive on the outside as well and your physical symptoms will not be as prominent. (carry tissue) Sexy can mean different things to different people. Sexy could be a black cocktail dress to one person.....or fragged-out hair, sweat pants and a giant shirt to another. What makes YOU FEEL SEXY? If you FEEL Sexy on the inside...You WILL be sexy on the outside. It's a persona. A FEELING of You. From the inside out. A Positive FEELING of Attractiveness....Loving You and ALL that YOU ARE. YOU ARE ATTRACTIVE!!!! Now, hold your head up.....feel Awesome about Who and What you Are and SHINE like the Light you Are!!!! With Abundant Blessings and a Giant Hug............eileen

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Permalink Reply by Can Can Kan on December 4, 2008 at 2:47pm

Think of women you think are attractive (or who you'd love to be for a day)? Not just looks (although that's part of it). Think of what makes them seem attractive, alluring and sexy to you. Everybody can look their best, become good at listening and conversation, be gracious and fun-loving, adventurous, etc.

There are non-traditional looking women who are very attractive. It may their style, their boldness, their intelligence, etc. Everyone is different. Learn to dress the way that will flatter your body shape. Even the most "perfect" bodies need the right clothing to truly look great! And I do agree that attractive is in the eye of the beholder. Some people like a lot of makeup, some very little, some the all natural look. Some guys like long hair, some short, etc. Some don't care! Me, I am a sucker for a cute face & a quirky personality. An interest in art & music doesn't hurt, either.

Listen to Fiona Boye's song, Celebrate the Curves...this is my motto (well, that and Baby's Got Back...LOL) -
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&am...

It pretty much sums up the thought of learning to love yourself!!!

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Permalink Reply by Ryan on December 4, 2008 at 2:57pm

I personally just remind myself for a few moments per day that I am good as I am.
I also say to myself, in my head, "I allow myself to be perfect as I am." This can be so powerful!

I recently lost over 85 lbs. and will be doing an experiment to lose 20 more by Jan 1st. All of that aside, I haven't dieted for 8 months, and haven't exercised for over a month now. I still don't consider myself sexy, except when I'm joking, but, just today someone said that I looked very attractive lately. It's nice to hear, considering I looked better 6 months ago.

Ryan

The Secret To Your Life Blog

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Permalink Reply by Lori on December 6, 2008 at 8:24pm

i love that ryan! i allow myself to be perfect as i am...very nice. and, btw, you look very attractive in your PI pic. you definitely should consider yourself sexy, because you are!

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Permalink Reply by MeMe on December 4, 2008 at 3:06pm

Thank you so much all for your help! Any more suggestions will help as well.

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