How to achieve being wanted by people? I want to feel loved, appreciated, and I want to recieve love from others. I want to feel that people want to know me, want to be with me, want to be me. and Lately I have noticed that I give so much but sometimes I dont recieve anything back.
I want to feel like People love being around me.
How to achieve this?
Exactly Robert and Seamus!!
The confusing part here is that when we hear the words- 'become a giver' we tend to think that we must forgo our own joy and sacrifice for someone else and suffer and to give up the opportunity and expectation of being loved back.
This is what I thought and practiced at times. It not only felt awful but I was not able to feel real love for the other person , did not receive much and it was all a mess.
Giving first is being so full of love yourself that you spill it everywhere you go. You love them because the feeling of loving another being is so beautiful . The act should multiply the love you feel within. It makes you feel more powerful . Know that there is so much love for you in this world . There is no denying this because it is the nature of the universe. Irrespective of what one feels or believes. Channel this love in your activities or other material things. Feel love for the vocation you have chosen. Feel love for the food you are cooking.
You automatically become a magnet for love and receive it, it is the Law!
I have tried this with my cats and it works! If a cat can love you back then anyone can :P
Also, you can specify your desire/intention to be adored and admired by everyone around you. Then practice already experiencing it.
The reason I wrote my previous response was to sort of outline a general formula for deep felt, consistent and long lasting results. Specific intentions can also lead to a general vibration change. It differs from person to person from time to time.
The simple answer is to love and appreciate yourself, and attract people in alignment with that. People who love and appreciate you and like it when you are around. As a simple demonstration, last year, I spent a night giving thanks for myself and my life. I affirmed to the higher power, THANK YOU FOR THE MARVEL OF ME. The following day I went on a daytrip to Winchester, and went for dinner in a pub. In there I met a friendly couple who I hit it off with straight away and who really appreciated me. One of them even said " you've got a lovely energy about you. " That was the effect of one night's self-appreciation: imagine what you could attract if that was an habitual vibration.