Flowerpatch: Sorry to hear about your friend, Betty. Do know that she will not be alone when she passes. All of her friends and family that have gone before her will be there when she passes to welcome her. Take heart in the good memories that you have had with her. It is never easy to let someone go. Sending good thoughts and energy to you and her both.
Please don't beat yourself up! It's perfectly reasonable that you didn't want her to be alone when she passes. You just want to be as great of a friend to her as she's been to you. Don't worry though. She won't be alone. No matter if you're both physically apart, you have each other in your hearts and in spirit, and no amount of distance can change that. She will pass knowing that you absolutely love and cherish her, and I think that will put her at ease whether you are there or not. You and Betty will always be best friends regardless of what happens.
Flowerpatch, it's so wonderful of you to want her to transit in a peaceful manner. Since your desire is so strong, it will happen exactly the way you want. In some way or the other way, she will not feel lonely when she makes the exit, regardless of whether there are people around her or not. And if you are tuned in when she passes away, you will feel her energy too.. You are always there for her energetically, which is much more satisfying to her soul than just being physically around. We will all pray for her smooth journey.
Betty is so beautiful...She shows no signs of suffering Flowerpatch.