I'm assuming that whichever I have the least resistance to will appear first?
Can you have multiple desires like this?
While we've been separated we've both resolved the two big issues that pushed us apart. It wasn't an amicable separation, I had to call the police as he got very drunk, things just escalated from there. I'm pretty sure I've been firmly placed in his 'too hard basket' as it would be a long slog for us to get back together. Not impossible, but all past anger, hurts would have to be let go by both of us.
I think ArtistLaura has it right...I'm just going to focus on what my dream life with my kids is and let the universe make it happen. I think I'm trying to hard to make shit happen....yesterday I was given 10k. I didn't even ask for it. I kinda said to the universe it be nice to have some more cash cos I'm always saying I have enough and I always end up with 'just enough'. But I wanted to spoil myself. I was so not bothered.