I see a lot of posts here about this topic; your ex has a mind of their own, and you can't control how they feel about you. If you two get back together again, that's great, but the LoA does not work in controlling other people!! All you can do is attract the same energy you're giving out...so it's perfectly possible to attract a perfect mate....but that may or may not be your ex, and you cannot change their mind with positive thinking and acting as though you are together. Actually that's a little creepy lol. If anything, perhaps if you act positively they will see a different side of you and want to be around you...but it's not your mind's power at work controlling them and what they do. If they fall out of love it's up to them and NO ONE ELSE.
I agree that we all have free will. I do admit, at one time I had a young man I fancied for a year (!) and I wanted him to be mine more than anything. He was just my online messenger buddy--and lived far away. He eventually got a girlfriend and I was crushed. I had done everything--trying to manifest, meditate on him even remote seduction and it did not work. Our energies were just not a match, and we were in different areas in our lives, culturally, age-wise, location. I learned several years later to accept the fact they were together, why would I want to be with someone who didnt think I was awesome. I also remember, several years ago chatting with a girlfriend about my love life. She said, do you notice a PATTERN here? The men I dated were all similar -- looks-wise they could be brothers, personality wise, you name it and the same situations kept repeating themselves (no commitment, abandonment, etc.) Instead of wanting them back, I got angry and said I don't deserve this! Then my relationships began to change! And interestingly, I learned this strange phenomena-- when I would ignore ex's and dissapear they would go INSANE! It is because I took my energy off of them and stopped caring anymore. They would sense that like guy-dar and start texting me and making me mad, they were like vermin!
So my belief is, we can attract our ex back, when the energy is taken away from them and onto ourselves! And if they come crawling back, I have to ask myself,do I want him again? He just wants me because I'm hard to get now? Why would I want that-- they could take you for granted again and dissapear. No Thanksies :D
Very inspiring, Cassandra. Thanks.
All what you say rings true to me too. Letting go is the only way toward sanity, only when you have let go you are healed inside.
I get that you are trying to help, but you write the same message in every post regarding attracting an ex back no matter how old the post is. Personally I would consider this spamming.
My apologies Evelina, I was just trying to help with what I used and experienced before. I know that different people have different beliefs and I personally used this method. This is my way of spreading what I was able to learn and apply. I was just giving my own personal opinion. God bless
Help is always appreciated. That being said, you may not post your biz etc in the forums although you can have that info on your profile page. As you help people they will be attracted to what you have and check you out. It is considered spamming though if you repeatitively post the same things and link them to your business. I am sure your intentions are great, but we have these rules in order to keep the forums from becoming overcome with ads. Thanks for your help!
Will take note of this Marcy. Thank you very much for the advise! God Bless
Please don't dishearten and limit other people's beliefs.
Remember, too much knowledge or little of it, both can be dangerous. Thereby, it is a humble request to not dissuade people.
In all fairness, you're doing to them exactly what you're telling them not to do. It's as simple as "I respect your belief, and I have my own as well. Aren't we all so amazing to even have that ability to believe in what we want?" As such, it's a humble request to just be humble.
LOA rule number one: ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE!
Anything is possible, just many things require you to leave this particular plane of existence to experience it. I'm not saying that the orange tree doesn't exist, because it does, but you don't get the oranges from that tree while you're still standing under the apple tree. Enjoy your apples for now.
no one would go to that extent if it weren't for their belief. When you strive for something, there is no way that you won't get it.
Exactly. :) That's the most amazing part of this whole process; learning how to control, maintain, and consciously create your lens of perception. As you suggested, that changes everything, and when you're able to see/feel/believe in what you're wanting, you'll find your way to it because that's what you're decided and that's what you're seeking. It doesn't mean it didn't exist prior, you just didn't have the eyes to see it or the ears to hear it calling you to it.
In the end, it's better for all of us to just exist in love, including myself. Love is the allowance and acceptance of all things; not a pick and choose situation. I love and accept you for your vision of this, and the same to the other person. You both have different viewpoints, each with their own respective means of "proving itself," so you're both right for your own perceptions. You've both programmed your perception to see and believe in the way that you suggest, and that's perfectly fine for both of your lives.
As for my own belief on this? There are much easier ways to attracting a mate or an ex back. Whether or not you can control someone with LoA isn't much of a problem, as people are very easily manipulated in many other ways anyways. Controlling people is child's play, especially when you've taken the time to understand the physical body that you exist within; that includes your brain/mind. You've all already been programmed with so many different triggers, whether you obtained them from others or it's ones you've created. It usually doesn't take long to figure out what others love or hate, and then something as simple as a word can take control over what they think, which trickles down into action. Anyways, that's not my recommend way of handling things either, but just something that is.
I wish you both the best. Take care!