Abe has an EMOTIONAL SCALE, where HATE is like the 3rd emotion up. It's ABOVE Despair and Depression/HOpelessness.
So it's a step up for those whom USED to be in Despair/DEPRESSION....
Thus do others concur? I'm staying on the HATE Disk right now.
I'm rarely hitting the despaire emotional spot. So hate is keeping me right below hope on the scale. It's not wrong or right, it's just where i'm hovering right now. *Dear Universe, I hate almost everything in my life!
I offer these ... read or read not .... ((shrugs ))
I know it's not necessarily an LOA idea but sometimes I do get in my mind suggestions for people on reading their posts that just pop in there. Here's yours:
Could you - contrary as it may sound - use hate as your muse?
I don't know, it would be worth somehow knowing more about people who have done this. What I mean is some artists be they singers, musicians or artists like you, or writers, they express that hate in their craft, use their art as an outlet and some of them are success with the creations that come out of it.
I don't know if it's a positive aspects thing or seeing you as more powerful than the hate or what but it's just a thought that popped in there, may or may not be useful. Use this as a catalyst, perhaps, for your art.
well you can also turn it to kind of anger, get angry at the situation, or situations and decide enough is enough , change the way you think and feel by using it. Sometimes smashing a plate against the wall can also feel good, and take you to that good feeling place inside. it is an assumption that we need to try very hard to change things.
however heres a little technique you can try
Imagine whatever it is in your life that you dont like or hate , imagine every detail , than freeze the picture in to a block of ice. Now you can imagine holding a big hammer and smash it to millions of pieces , destroy it. i like to imagine my fist glowing with power , like iron fist in marvel comics, and smashing through the ice which than spreads in millions of tiny pieces all around me and melts down to nothing. Or you can use a dragon to breath fire on it, or some other form of heat. Use your imagination , this works for me , it might work for you too.
Coming from shamanic view of the world that everything is symbolic and can be used to help you in any way you can imagine.
Your life is a reflection of your emotions. Change your attitude, change your life.
Thanks for this, got a little angry this afternoon
Something has to go right for me! My vibes cannot be that terrible to attract problem after problem after problem. My body is an issue like this right now. Also, income and housing and wanting to never be around criminals again! When u r very poor you go places for help like food pantry food shelves and hear how all of the people in line around u are super sick or dangerous felons! How the heck can this stuff stop!!!
LAURA you got plenty of good advice on this and other of your posts perhaps try and use it. look how U R describing your situation, did you aactually try anything that people have suggested? or are you waiting for a magical solution to just appear. because you know you have to believe in magic for that to happen and I gather that you dont.
You. Got it. I am an Abraham person pretty much all the way. I cannot tell u how many people suggest tjings that would injure me, like tapping my injured sick muscles to try to solve problems. I do not think imagining anger in ice does anything at all for anyone.
I feel sorry for you seriously sorry because of the denial you live in
I was taught i had no right to feel anger by my shame based alcoholic narcisstic family!
Well, you seem to have gotten over that, given that you routinely come here and spew your anger all over the place, and at everybody who tries to help you when life isn't going your way.
You've got anger down. You're an expert in it. And you clearly believe you have a right to be angry at everyone and everything that disappoints you, or you wouldn't behave this way.
Your problem isn't that you're too ashamed to feel anger; it's that you stay in your anger, and fester in it, and keep focusing on every reason you can find to stay angry--to stay the victim. "I'm hurt! I'm not getting what I want! My life sucks! Other people are terrible to me! WHERE'S MY STUFF?!" Over and over and over again, it's anger, anger, anger because the world won't bend to your wishes.
But the world doesn't bend to your wishes, according to the LoA; it bends to your vibration. And since you're perpetually angry and discontented and resentful, and you keep focusing on things that feed your anger, that's your vibration, and that's what you keep getting.
You get creepy sex-for-rent offers from men? You could simply delete them as soon as you realize what they are, and move on. It's just pixels on a screen, and you can choose how to feel about them. If you want to go into a rage over it, and stay angry? You're only hurting yourself; the men don't care. And by focusing that much intense negative emotion into them, you're ensuring that skeevy sex-for-rent offers remain part of your vibration, and at the same time repel the kinds of offers you claim you do want.
Nobody sane wants to live with an angry, crazy person who blames everyone else for all of their problems and has a million sob stories for why their life is shit--and as long as that's your dominant vibration, the sane people will stay away and only the creepers and the crazies and the flakes will respond to you.
This is all LoA 101 stuff. "You get what you focus on." When you insist upon seeing the world through shit-colored glasses, refusing to take them off because they're "reality," you're not going to see a whole lotta rainbows. Until you fix your chronically negative thinking, you'll kep getting negative experiences--you cannot get anything else. You cannot get better until your thinking is better. And that means giving up the role of helpless victim responsible for nothing in your experience, and assuming the role of powerful creator responsible for everything in your experience.
And to answer your original question, it's perfectly fine to feel anger about the circumstances you've created for yourself. Where things go to shit is when you stay angry, and stay a victim, rather than use that intense energy to launch major changes within yourself. There's nobody to be angry at but you--not even your parents. And there's nobody who can transform your experience but you. Your choice.
even if i totally understand your point the fact is we just need to look inside....we are no longer 7 years old, we all are able to blame others, to blame abusive people but that attitude will NEVER give us our power back! that's what Vortician was undelining.