I'm literally a super sweet and friendly person. I'm never rude to anybody at all. I never let any anger out on anybody either. I'm always complimenting people, especially strangers to try to make them feel good. But I've read that even if you believe negative, the Universe will give you negative, I think.
So should I change my thought patterns that people DO like me and DO want to talk to me and then it'll happen?
I just literally have no self-esteem from so many years of bullying, cyber-bullying, betrayal, rejection, clinical depression, body dysmorphia, etc.
Are you super sweet and friendly to yourself? Are you always complimenting yourself to make yourself feel good?
If people don’t like you, you believe that as a reflection that you don’t like you. The more you like yourself you attract people to treat you the same way you treat yourself.
Here’s a post I wrote that can help: Rejection - It’s just a Reflection.
Lovely & perfect replies to your question sweetheart! i will only add a few quotes:
Fear itself is not the impediment to your joyful life. But, fear is pointing at the impediment to your joyful life. And just as the feeling of fear is within you, the impediment is within you also. Abraham Hicks
I get what you all are saying. Could it also be that my personality isn't exactly "extroverted?" Should I try being more of an extrovert to attract people liking me?