I was given great advice off my amazing friend ZH, to listen to this link and focus on my love and being with him, So last night I lay on my bed closed my eyes and took deep breathes until i was in a state of calm.
Whilst listening to this link I pictured everything I would want my relationship to be like with him, pictured us already together and connecting to his heart and sending him unconditional love and heart energy. (He is currently is his phase 1 army training so its even harder for him to contact me than usual).
(I had been doing it a few times in the day as well, along with looking at my vision board listening to uplifting love songs, on my train rides home i would always listen to these meditation video's too, staying positive and always having faith even when it felt hopeless.)
I have put the links below for anyone who wants to get there ex back or attract a specific person, it DOES work, I was so grateful to see that whilst i was meditating (I fell asleep afterwards and didn't check my phone) HE MESSAGED ME WHILST I WAS DOING IT.
IT DOES WORK! I am so happy and grateful and appreciative right now, I am in the process of getting him back and have been making so much progress these past 2 weeks! Thank you thank you thank you universe!
Please people try this and I guarantee it will amaze you! Please have faith and stay positive! Keep your energy high, see your friends, do what you love and just send them unconditional love and also most importantly be willing to let them go!
So much love to you all xxxxx
Just wanted to add an update on this, I am now in a new relationship and happier than ever. Realising that the most important thing was self love and my own happiness made me realise that I didn't want my ex back in the end, and also made me realise how mentally abusive he was.
I feel before trying to get your ex back, try finding yourself again first. Learn what makes you happy and focus on your life. I know you love them so much, and it it extremely hard to come to terms with that kind of loss. But what if you could find someone that could treat you 100 x better? What if you could have the man and woman of your dreams? Love is supposed to feel easy, life gets hard and situations can make it difficult, but the love should never change or fade if its true. That is my new belief anyway.
Write down what you truly want in a partner, really focus on everything, even if its hundreds of things that you want in a partner, if it makes you happy it doesn't matter. Then focus on that list, if your ex comes back then maybe they were right for you after all, and if you meet someone new, give them a chance? They could be the love of your life!
In the end I just didn't understand why I kept choosing someone who wasnt sure about me to someone who was so into me. People would say that is true love holding onto them, but if you let them go and they come back, then they were truly yours all along. And if they werent then there is someone much much better out there that deserves your time and love. Your love is so precious and cherish it every day, don't just give your heart to anyone. Know your worth and wait for someone that makes you feel that incredible every day. Trust me its worth it xxxx
Wonderful update MJ :)
Great advice thank you
I'm just thrilled that you got out of the abusive relationship! Bravo! If you are in your happy place, you are surrounded by the same, so it is all about getting in your happy place, living 'satisfaction', and everything will take care of itself. Hmmm that's good! I am still working on reaching my happy place. It's all about retiring ASAP comfortably right now, if romance happens, so be it, if it doesn't, so be it.