I seem to keep attracting angry, blaming and controlling people. Mostly passive aggressive. They smile to my face and act pleasant but slam cupboards, doors etc, angry tone of voice (bullies) or they stomp around. If I ask them they deny they are upset and get more upset for me asking. And it doesn't matter where I go I always seem to attract them in my life and family members. I tend to be more easy going and positive I am not upset or angry and they don't seem to like that. I have also been doing internal work on myself to keep growing and improving.
I am also sensitive to negativity. I have tried hypnosis CDs and reading positive books but nothing seems to work. It's like they are attracted to me like a moth to a flame sometimes with jealousy. When these people are not around I feel amazing but when they are around their negativity brings me down. I feel like I am missing the lesson that the Universe is trying to teach me and that's why this issue keeps repeating. Do you have any suggestions or what the lesson could be that I am learning?
Are these people mirroring your own behaviour? I mean, could this somehow be something you are doing unconsciously which is why you are so sensitive to these people and seem to keep attracting them?
Also whats the advantage of having these people in your life? For one, you know not to trust anything they say (which in some ways is quite reassuring isn’t it).
I’m not sure you are missing anything or that there is any lesson that the Universe is trying to teach you per se.