Hello, i joined a dating site and have been corresponding with this guy who has grown on me. On my profile i stated wanting only friendship bla bla bla, I told this guy this, even thou its clear on my profile, i emailed him at first if he has any bites and then he asked me and i told him how i just wanting friendship.
Yesterday i said to myself Yes I am wanting friendship but really i want a relationship with someone who i feel is ideal for me and with that there is friendship within it too. I now want to tell him that.
However i truly want to manifest a date with him, like he asks me out, or is it okay to ask him out. My girlfriend says wait for him. I am like Why? I could be waiitng forever.
I am surprised I feel this way, as my heart is still attached to my ex (my ex knows this). Yet i feel this connection to this guy on this dating site and would like to get to know him more and better. How do i manifest a date, what can i do without sounding desperado.
We exchanged mobile phone numbers too, yay.
Any tips advice, i appreciate :) Thank you.
I have written my proposition out in preparation to send it to him. Awaiting that moment when i feel right to do so. I truly appreciate hearing from him, and how we text chat, he is refreshing to me. My intuition is sparking up and feels there is more to this, yet will be patient (try to).
I intend to meet this guy :)
I did a little bit of detective work last night and found out more about him. I really do like this guy, yet to meet in person to know. So will send a proposition in next few days. So with my discovery, he is so talented and smart. He is tall, attractive, smart, talented. So far he is ticking my boxes, the rest i need to find out more.
My ego is stepping in with doubt like He is amazing, you need to be awesome to be with him.
We do have some things in common. I appreciate him texting me when he does. I already this connection to him, probably soulmate thingy.
I need to tell myself I am good enough, and have been doing well until i discovered a little more about him. Its like I had a big GULP, geez he can have anyone, why doesnt he?