I haven't been on this forum in awhile and I really felt the pull to come back. The past year has been very difficult and stressful for me. I wont go into the boring details, but bottom line I hate my job/career. I actually try to be thankful everyday for it because I'm very lucky to have a job, yet I am so unfulfilled and feel depressed everyday at work. On top of that I have the most negative coworkers and when I say negative they literally never say anything nice about anyone...very catty. One is 30 and the other is a follower of the 30yr old except she is 53...very sad!! So overall work is really stressful.
I would love to manifest a new career. I could find another job but I don't enjoy the job anymore and want something new. The problem being I have no idea what I want to do!!
So how do you manifest a new career when you have no idea what you want to do??
Thank you in advance
Whenever you feel confused, that means you’re trying to focus on specifics and figure things out when you’re not ready—you’re not vibrationally up to speed with your desire. And that’s alright. The confusion is guidance letting you know that is when you want to back off of trying to figure out the details, and go general into a better-feeling place. Your work is to focus on feeling better. And it can be easier to feel better when you go general, since focusing on specifics that you don’t know will cause you to not feel good and offer resistance.
What do you want to feel doing a job you enjoy?
“I want to feel loved. I want to feel accepted. I want to feel appreciated. I want to feel valued. I want to feel validated. I want to feel productive. I want to feel accomplished. I want to feel pride in my work and what I do. I want to feel good. I want to have fun. I want to feel comfortable. I want to feel inspired. I want to feel creative. I want to feel excited to wake up do work I feel passionate about.”
Those are all emotions you want to feel, and it’s all very general. That doesn't focus on what you would be doing, it just focuses on what you would be feeling while doing it. And as you stay in that good-feeling state, you get into the receptive mode of allowing yourself to receive the clarity and details of what you want to do.
Thank you Brian...that makes sense. I will try that. what do you do when you have negative people all around you and boss that doesn't do anything about bad behavior?
In the morning, meditate for 10 - 15 minutes and pre-pave the energy of how you want to feel for the day. Also, take out a piece of paper and write a list for 5 - 10 minutes of their positive aspects. Focus more on what you like about them and appreciate the value they bring.
If you have too much resistance on that, then at the very least do your best not to judge or complain about them. Allow them and you just focus on what you want and what feels better for you when you give it your attention. Don't allow yourself to be another negative person by complaining about other negative people. What someone else does doesn’t affect you unless you give it attention by judging what they’re doing. So lovingly allow them, while you focus on allowing yourself to create the life that you want.
Thank you Jessica for posting this thread, and Brian for your wise response.
I too am looking to change my career path. Undecided whether to look at Veterinarian Assistant, Vet nursing, or Wildlife Carer course.
Funny you should say that LauraO I took one of those and my career came up...:) and other healthcare jobs too!! And I want out of healthcare I am burnt out!!
When it comes to trying to manifest OUT OF something you don't want and INTO something that you do want, most people miss the mark on manifesting because they are focusing on escaping from something they don't want, so what they don't want persists.
You really know what you don't want and there is a lot of momentum so you have to go very general, as in stop focusing on the specifics on what you don't like about your current situation to slow down the momentum or your intense feelings about it, THEN in time when your focus isn't so heavily on what you don't want focusing on what you do want will become a lot easier.
As Brain said, the foolproof way to manifest anything really is finding out how you want to feel and focus on feeling that feeling in the now. Because you probably won't manifest an entire career change right now, but you CAN experience the feelings that the change can give you NOW which will in turn give you what you want in the future, provided you keep practicing those feelings and make them more normal in your daily life.
Hope this helps!
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How do you manifest a new career when you have no idea what you want to do? Literally, pick anything and do it. However, I bet that isn't the direct logical answer you wanted to that question. So lets start somewhere else; what do you enjoy doing? What are the basic general things you enjoy in life? What are you good at? What are you WILLING to do?
Without vision, you have no direction. Sure, you can wander endlessly and eventually run into something, but when you have a clear vision on where you want to head, you can take the paths that lead to it instead of hoping that something works out one day. So first and foremost, we need to figure out what it is that you want to focus on doing. Your passions and subtle things you enjoy about life is the best place to search first. Those are the things that make you feel alive. Figuring out what you want is usually the most difficult part of the process.
If you want to reply with a list of things you enjoy, I wouldn't mind helping you get pointed in the right direction. :D There are no accidents when it comes to success; it's a very well beaten path. Once you've decided on what you want to do, it's easy enough formulating the strategy to get you there.