For a long time, I was stuck at Boredom on Abe's emotional guidance scale. I have now moved up to Contentment/Optimism.
I still have negative thoughts and doubts creeping in. When they do, I tell myself, "It'll be fine, don't worry" or "It's all good" or "Good lies ahead of me" or "God will look after me" or 'Keep faith in God". It has been helping.
I had one minor breakdown, but other than that, I have been consistent. In the past week, this is my makeup:
Boredom = 20%
Contentment/Optimism = 50%
Anger = 20%
Impatience = 10%
All comments/feedback is welcome.
I feel as if the relief of moving up is more important than the feeling your at if you move from victim to angry you can still attract. Congratulations on moving to contentment! I'm so happy for you!
I agree, thank you so much for your feedback. I was stuck at boredom for a while, and I really worked on my beliefs to move past it. The freedom is liberating! :)
You say you were stuck at boredom as if it’s not a good thing. When you see the beauty in boredom, you’re no longer stuck. When you see anger, impatience and bored as all good emotions because they are guidance to help you, then you release your resistance to feeling them and feel relief quicker.
I see what you mean, thank you for leading me to more clarity :-)
The thing is the "bad feelings" are weak they aren't going to make you dissolve into nothingness. The present was made by past thought and feelings and not your current ones so no need to worry that the "bad feelings" will ruin your moment. Once you see that and how the feelings can guide and lead you you'll reach greatness.
Very true, so similar to a talk I was listening to yesterday by Abe :)
Brian, would you please look into the "belief" discussion below and give us your thoughts?
Is there any question you had about beliefs?
“When you feel good, you attract whatever is in your vortex.”
“So this means that even by not deliberately working on changing beliefs but by moving up the scale, one can attract all things in one’s vortex?”
Which is the same thing as feeling good.
“By feeling happy without the condition, you do not give power to your beliefs and they melt away.”
You focus on beliefs that help you feel better, so the not-good-feeling beliefs deactivate with lack of attention to them.
“. . . one twin flame we will meet and eventually marry.”
Which thought feels better?
There’s one match for you, only one, and if you don’t meet them you’ll never have a fulfilling relationship?
Or, there’s infinite matches that are perfect for you, so relax and enjoy yourself?
Perfect, thank you. I agree with everything you said.
Regarding the twin flame, the argument is that you and your twin flame are bound to find each other, there is no other way. So the manifestation of the relationship is assured. This is what I understood from the video.
I discovered Teal Swan yesterday, and her video about the law of attraction is pretty interesting. Have you watched it?
Based on your example, the relationship is assured, but the satisfaction is not. You get the relationship, but it doesn’t mean you will feel loved and satisfied. And the only reason you want a relationship is to feel loved and satisfied. When you feel those already, you don’t care about the relationship, and so you allow it.
Okay, I understand. Thank you Brian!