Update January 3th
Ok guyz. I wanted to thanks all of you for you words and your time. I learned so much and met great people there.
1. EX BACK : This is my experience with LOA.
Basicaly, we learn that LOA is : attract what we are. To attract what we feel, and what we are aligned with.
More deeply, LOA is : beeing what we believe, so our subconscious mind communicate it with the energy shield around us to shift our personnal experience.
We then learn that our subconscious mind could be affected by blocks or resistance coming from different sources within us.
Most of people wants to attract money or love and we know for sure that some amazing things happened !
But My experience was different. I started learning about LOA 1 year ago, and when my ex broke up in August 2015, It was a good opportunity to use it.
I was really serious with it : reading ALL deep and complex books, asking questions to interesting people (superman wrote me a lot ! CG was amazing, Mallica talked little, and others wonderful people)
So I started with different tools : affirmations, gratitude book, visualisation, meditation.
Then I became more at ease, with day dream, with feeling awsome.
I discoverd other techniques with Nevill Godard and it was amazing.
So I was confused......Is that a coincidence ? LOA is working the way I want ? Why everybody talks about the ex coming back with regrets or feelings and I have THIS ?
I waited a few days, and this morning, January 3th, I felt the intuition to text her. To wish her a happy new year, and invite her to meet me in january...
4 hours later, she texted me. Wishing me a happy new year but totally avoid the "meeting" question.
BAM. I finally understood something : I was in DENIAL for 4 MONTHS. Living like she was still around. Moving on, but having faith that she will come back etc...
And why did I thought like that : because, like everyone here, I was seeing SIGNS. Signs (coincidences?) that aligned me with DENIAL.
She did not react like some one I was attracting at all....So everybody will say : it's because you are not consistent or well aligned with love...but guyz, i mean it when I say I did a great job with this. Studying hours for months all techniques, finding peace and balance, having total faith. I was great.
So why when things don't happen, everybody have to point figure on the person who want to manifest ?
The truth is HOW CAN WE REALLY PROOVE THAT LOA CAN BRING BACK SOME ONE ?
We CAN NOT.
So now Im really putting this away, because its not sain. The simple notion of denying reality is not healthy.
2. EX BACK : FEW PEOPLE VS a lot
So let's talk about the power of truth.
For example 100 persons in a room. If 2 people say "the sky is blue" and the other 98 don't agree, they say "the sky is green", do we have to think that the majority is automotically right ? No
Same in LOA. If a lot people can't manifest things, we can't automically say that LOA does not work.
But what about experiences that includes 2 people ? One who wants the other one.
Can we say that, just because 10 persons on this forum attracted their exes, this is really working ?
How can we be so sure that non success is due to a lack of LOA mastery for the majority of people ?
How can we considere this truly ?
Original Post :
Hello PI family,
short story : I applies Mallica's teachings to test the return of an ex.
A few days after, my ex contacted me in a surprising way....like just to ask me a service, after 2 months of no contact from me...I was AMAZED !! But I have to admit that it was not what I was expecting for.
I wanted to discuss about this with Mallica.
I mean, because she always talks about the fact that the ex contacts us when our energy changes, but
what if he comes back this way...like non romantic one... from nowhere ?
I will not act on this, I will not change my energy or recontact her, but I really need advices and opinions about my situation.
I don't know how to join Mallica, neither on PI or her private forums...
Can anyone help ?
Did you know that Mallica has a book on amazon called from tears to jeers it's about getting your ex back.
I was wondering can you find the book somewhere as an ebook ?
Did you find a lot of self-love methods in the books, because actually I don't know if I want my ex back.
But I think a lot about him and I just want to talk to him - know how he's doing, but he doesn't want contact with me anymore (there isn't some major reason for that, we didn't fight or anything). So I would love it if he just contacted me once to talk. I just don't want a bad/ silent ending.
On the other hand I'm just trying to love me more and trying to focus on myself.
I've read Mallica's post and found it very helpful. But sometimes I just can't get my mind of him. So I was wondering if the book was useful for you in that way ?
Hi there °Oo hauri oO°!
I know you sent me a PM, but I just wanted to say that I am SO excited that your ex reached out - I KNEW you could make this happen!!!
Sometimes this contact happens in very unexpected ways so don't be alarmed - this is just proof from the Universe and LOA that what you are doing is working :) I first made contact with my ex in a very unexpected way, as well. Listen to your heart, believe in the good and know that your end result and your story is already unfolding for you in the best possible way with your ex. I am so excited for you!
All the best and happy new year :)
my dear CG than you so much for your message. You know what it means to me.
Sadly my situation changed....I contacted her and....she did not react like someone I was attracting.
I know now that I was in DENIAL since the beginning. And this is deep to me because it changed my perception of LOA...
does not work for me my dear CG
Cool story, bro! Glad for you, but can't help with it.
It seems that there are always people looking for me. I am not at all hard to find! Just drop in a message :)
Malica, Malica, do your techniques also work if (or CAN they also work) if it's NOT an ex but a specific person who you haven't met?
(In my case, at one stage they DID say some very mushy things to me :-D :-)
What do you mean by - a specific person who you haven't met?
Do you mean that you have not (yet) met him in person?
Just know him online?
Or something else?
Lots fo Love!!
We've not yet met in person, although we HAVE been trying to for a couple of months. We've talked on the phone twice and yes I've seen enough to know yep that's actually HIM not some catfish ha ha. Initially he did express interest and attraction in me (quite a lot actually) but now I'm not so sure. Anyway that's the scenario. :-) And thank you for asking!