I'm new here, I'm Japanese so please forgive me about my English level.
Recently I've read The Secret by Rhonda Bryne. And now I'm big fan of Law of attraction thoughts! I used to have huge negative thoughts. But recently even when I get negative feelings, I can switch my mood to a good one sooner than before. I'm very happy about it! I want to improve myself more and more, and get a happier life!
Today I need an advice about my sister's situation.
She is an optimistic person. She rarely has sad days. And even when she has a sad day, she can think things positive so her mood won't turn bad. But at the moment, she's been having a problem.
2 years ago, she got married with an american man. And she was going to move to the States.
She is an artist and she can work at anywhere. and her husband has a nice job in the States so it's the best for them that my sister moves to America than her husband moves to Japan. At first, they've done document work by themselves to get visa, but they made some mistakes on the paper and it was rejected. And next, her husband hired lawyer to help, but the lawyer made mistake and it was rejected again. And since his company knew his situation, now his company has been helping to let my sister get visa (or green card). I haven't understand the whole situation so I can't explain well.. But it seems there are lots of bad luck and I feel that something is bothering them. Usually my sister is very positive, but since she is having this problem for almost 2 years.. she cried alot the other day. (Though, now her mood turned up and she is being positive again.)
I was advising her to do visualization. like imaging she is already in America and has having a happy life there. Then she told me that she is doing it every nights before she sleep. Also, she has already sent her stuff to America and she is ready to move to the States anytime! She seems she has been doing everything related LoA things. So I wonder why this problem has not been solved for 2 years.
Since they are having this problem, for now, her husband visits Japan once in 3 months. Everyone around them are hoping that they can live together sometime soon.
I'd appreciate if anyone read this situation and give some advice.
Thank you for reading my long story.
Everything is working out for them. Everything is unfolding perfectly. The only problem is viewing it as a problem. The more they feel satisfied where they are and unconditionally feel better they will allow what they want.
Thank you for your comment, Brian!
Now I noticed why they have been having this problem.. Because they view it as a problem. I'll advice it to my sister. Thank you so much!
Thank you for your comment Laura.
You are right ^-^ I'll do what I can do for myself. Also, send her positive thoughts.