Hi everyone, I haven't been here for a while but I hope you guys can help me.
I have been dating a man for the last 19 months who says I'm his soul mate and the love of his life and the most important person to him and all of that. The problem is, he suddenly told me that he's not ready for marriage and he doesn't know if he ever will be. How on earth did I attract that?? What do I do?
Honestly, I think that's it is something within himself and not you. I wouldn't worry about it. Let him work this out by himself and let nature take its course. I am pretty sure he loves you and wants to be with you. I wouldn't fret about it. :)
He’s reflecting that you are not ready.
You may think, “I am ready,” but this is about vibrational readiness. You know when you are ready when you feel relaxed, you feel satisfied, you feel fulfilled and you appreciate where you are.
When you feel worried, or doubt, or feel unloved, then you are not ready for the marriage you want but are not a vibrational match to yet.
If you are feeling marriage in your vibes, the universe will attract marriage feeling men and REPEL and show you NON Marriage feeling men. It's as simple as that.
Keep holding space for your husband if you wish for that experience no matter what, write how great of a man he will be to you and a great partner.
Yes . Everything is a reflection of how you really feel deep down. Sometimes our desires are born out of insecurity or lack and what happens is after we desire something. We continue to focus on the lack and insecurity while waiting for the manifestation to show up so we can stop feeling insecure or lack . Well the Universe doesn't work like that. The universe is sending you everything that matches how you really feel deep down. SO everything you're getting back is a reflection on how you really feel and what you're really focused on the most. Start focusing things that make you feel secure, feel loved and feel good and I bet your boyfriend will be begging you to marry him . Also other guys may show up and try to compete with your boyfriend just to marry you.
AMAZING . Nothing else needs to be said after that.
:D you got it Will!! :))
Excuse me, but, here it says that it's impossible to control the circumstances, but isn't also Abraham's quote that says " You're not brought into this world to just respond to the circumstances, you're brought to create them." ?
when you are not able to create the conditions (cause you still have some negative thoughts/feelings like fear, doubt etc) you can control them through the way you feel. moreover sometimes the Universe has even much better ideas than us so it's better to let it create the perfect conditions.
any more comments?
Is it possible that he's somehow hurt about the fact that you weren't ready when he was? I don't know him so I can't make assumptions, and I don't know whether or not that's something he would've been honest about already.