as the events or experiences which u experience in ur common life are the reflection of ur thoughts,so make ur temperament sweet,calm,composed and serene and resultantly the circumstances will become favourable for u.
If your common life means your daily life, yes. Your inner being and your loved ones (your friends and family) that you see daily are your common life. You get that right and nothing will blow you away from your dreams. It's your vortex around your vortex.