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Please help me! (in manifesting a soulmate/girlfriend)
I'm 19 years old. I don't know why I just told you people that.
I've been trying for 3-4 years years to attract my soulmate/girlfriend into my being. I was never ready like I was now. I feel like God/Universe is working against me instead of with me, like when I apply the Attraction's Law, the Universe won't co-operate. I've had plans for the both of us. We were going to go to Six Flags in the summer, go to the beach. I couldn't tell you all the plans I had for us together.
I've been Googling around... on the internet on my phone for ways to attract my soulmate via the Attraction's Law. All the ways I saw... I've done pretty much EVERY STEP! I did a list of how I want her to be like... I've visualized and felt... I AM my list... I've done rituals. I put my list away. I pretty much done all I could. Nothing.
My aunt and I have a good connection. We get along quite well. At one point I would call her and talk to her about my dreams of becoming an actor, and successfully attracting my laptop. Around now, our coversations are more centered around meeting my soulmate girlfriend. She keeps telling me to work on me. I agree with her advice as I even made up a list titled "My Perfect Me" with all the physical, personal, and other traits I would like to have. It dawned on me that... I want to be my Perfect Me before I meet my soulmate.
I just want to let it go. I told myself and God that I would let it go when I hid my Girlfriend List somewhere in my bedroom and after I put it away. I don't want to touch it or go back and get it until I do meet her. It's away. My list is away. Now, I want to get on with my life... focusing on my other dreams.
I keep feeling vexed... because I have not yet found her. These emotions are dominating my life. Or at least, that's what I feel like. When I do feel the emotions, I resort to meditating to use the EFT techniques and then that's when the negative feelings go away and haunt me later. Even if I apply the engery-tapping EFT (emotional freedom techniques) during my meditations when I really do feel the emotions, the negative emotions come back like... the NEXT. DAY! And I am sick. Of. IT!
I just want to move on with my life. I am tired of this mess. I've done all I could. I'm loosing my trust in God/The Universe. I'm just fed up with this. I mean- there are times when I sucessfully applied the Attraction's Law... but for the Laptop, a certain DVD, and the girlfriend... this is too much.
I keep praying to the Gods that I would be ready and remain ready on all levels to meet my soulmate... but these emotions keep coming back to haunt the h*ll out of me.
I want to enjoy my own company, without her. I want to feel complete with myself without her. I want to have all I need to be ready to meet her. I asked God to give me what I need but it's like She's/He's ignoring me, as I get these negative emotions. I don't know if the ignoring part is really the case. I just wanna be my Perfect Me and get rid of these negative emotions as they stand DEAD IN THE WAY of meeting my one true love.
Don't get me wrong. I know I don't need a soulmate/girlfriend to live out God's plan or purpose. I agreed with whoever posted on this one website that... we don't need a soulmate relationship to have a happy, joyous life, and that the soulmate was just the icing of the cake. But I truly want this. God knows that but it's like He/She keeps playing these games with me.
The other thing was, I after my girlfriend and I met, I was going to do a book about my long journey to meet her. I'm an author/actor. Writing is what I do. I of corse don't want to meet my girlfriend so I can write the book! I just wanted to write the book so I can inspire others to follow their dreams to find true love.
Also, it just disgusts me that... I'm also in the process of manifesting a Dell laptop, another thing that I've tried manifesting for years. It's in the unseen. I've tried putting positive feelings out there. I would visualize it every day... really trying to make the scene feel real. But it stays in the unseen. With my laptop still in the unseen, I don't know if or when I will get to come back to the site. I had to use a library public computer to post this. Please help me. I think I'm going to go insane not too long from now because here I am... grabbing my head and holding my hair. This is just how frustrated I am with this.
Thanks for any help you can provide as well as taking your time out to read this lengthy post!
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Permalink Reply by Milou on -
You know.. I haven't read everything (it's late here, and I'm tired). But I still want to help you.
You say you let go, but by feeling the universe is against you, you're not letting go.You're resisting.
What helped me find my great love was just not thinking about it at all. I had made a list of how I wanted him to be, a few months before. I met someone who was kinda similar to that list, lookwise at least. But he broke my heart. Then i read that list just for fun once. I was single having fun, not looking for anything but always in the back of my mind I had no doubt that I would find somebody in my life. I thought: I'm young, I will find somebody someday, without a doubt :)
And that's what you have to think. You have to let go, and trust that you are nice enough to find someone who's your great love :)
And well.. the great love is very much like my list :) I'd say about 90% or more :) Just let go, enjoy. You'll find her.
Excuse me, if I said things you already answered in your piece, I read it only halfway, I'm falling asleep behind my screen.
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Permalink Reply by Kris Stroz on -
I feel you man! I'm going to be 30 next week and haven't met "the one". I find this to be true. When you AREN'T LOOKING that's when you find someone. Sorry for the caps, but I wanted to make sure the point came across. Another thing... You need to be happy and established with yourself before you can have a successful relationship. How can you make someone else happy, if you can't make yourself happy KWIM?
When I was 19, I wanted some things in a relationship totally different than what I want now. If I had married the girl I was with when I was 19, I'd surely be divorced. My brother married the girl he was with when he was 19, and he's now divorced (and what a painful costly divorce that was).
You have your whole life ahead of you. You should be enjoying the NOW. You should be learning, growing, etc... Do you know you do the most growing as a person, during your 20's? Enjoy the NOW dude!
Peace out!
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Permalink Reply by Andrew Wilkie on -
What prevents you from having a girlfriend/relationship? In here lurks a belief or two.
1. Create a girlfriend/relationship vision board. Visualise it twice a day.
2. Write out your ideal girlfriend day.
3. Write 100 ways you can achieve the relationship of your dreams.
4. Leave the house. Get out and about. LOA is a numbers game. It's about the number of opportunities and the universe have many chances of giving you what you want.
5. Learn and APPLY EFT to get over your if, but, maybe, doubt and I'm picky. Totally changed my life. You said you have, yet on what, when and how.
6. Act on all should I do this... yes, if it feels good to you.
Job Done. - Keep Going until you reach your end result.
Don't have a deadline as you're constantly checking your calendar, is this it, is this a sign? That's human code for I don't believe this is working or going to happen for me.
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