All you wonderfull people out there, living up your dreams, or beginning to see them come alive. I am a newbie here. For the first time in my life, I have decided to seek the blessings and prayers of the universe to achieve my goals and fulfil my wishes.
I have had negative experiences all throughout my life, which could be blamed for my turning host to negativity!
I like and love this individual, a beautiful girl! She might have looked at me, but not direct, not when I saw her. We work at the same place, she appears to be just what I visualised. After going through the secret, I have reinforced my strong feelings for her and would like her as my life partner. Infact, she is the one!
I have affirmations set up and keep reading them, also before bed, however each morning when I wake up, I turn sad. I want her to be in my life, to be my wife, my lover, she is just wonderful. How to increase the pace and get her and me together as soon as possbile. Every morning, I start feeling negative, then go through the audio tape of 'The Secret' and start feeling better.
I want this to work for me, please help me and her get together!
Action is required-ask her for a date!
I also wanted to know should I stick her pictures everywhere, in my closet, the washroom wall etc. So I keep seeing her and reaffirming?
Please respond as its going to help me plan better, this has to happen.
ASK HER OUT! Can you imagine how silly you'd feel if she was using the Secret hoping that you'd ask her out??
You want something -- GO FOR IT! :D
It seems like you've been doing a lot of affirming, visualizing, etc. But the point at which you begin to feel bad about something that you want to manifest could imply that you think you won't get it, or you're too attached to your intentions. Have you tried "letting go" for a bit? Have you tried focusing in on yourself, and sending love to yourself to build your confidence and make your energy and presence even more attractive to her? You may have been focusing on all of her great qualities, but have you taken the time to think about what yours are?
People can sense the energy or vibe of another person, whether they know they can or not. So think of your energy as clothing- what are you wearing? Does your "outfit" say, I am confident! I acknowledge all of my great qualities and accept all of my flaws with love. I love myself unconditionally and therefore I could love others the same. Or does it say, I'm afraid to speak to her, I'm afraid of being rejected but I need this to happen. This thinking would of course be completely understandable, but is it a good "outfit"? :) It's been said many times before that confidence is attractive.
Just ask her out. Be the gentleman ;-)