Recurrent miscarriage

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Permalink Reply by Sapphire on January 12, 2009 at 10:39pm

Hi Belinda

I was searching through my computer a few days ago and found a post I copied from the old forum I think it was.

I'd rather send you a PM as its a bit long, but you need to change your personal settings to allow me to do this :)

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Permalink Reply by Belinda on January 13, 2009 at 4:49pm

I think I have fixed the settings now :)

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Permalink Reply by Profoundly_Plaid on January 12, 2009 at 11:25pm

I'm so sorry, Belinda. I'm at loss of knowledge on this one, but I can assure you my prayers are with you.

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Permalink Reply by Belinda on January 13, 2009 at 4:49pm

Thank you xoxo

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Permalink Reply by Mallica on January 13, 2009 at 2:48am

Belinda, I'm going to ask you a rather personal question - are you overweight?

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Permalink Reply by Shalini on January 13, 2009 at 4:33am

Belinda - have you checked for toxoplasmosis? It is treatable with spiromycin - the presence of these spores usually have no effect on the body except when the fetus is around 3 months. It could happen if you have cats around. Once treated, there is no problem if indeed that is the cause.

Peace and Joy :)

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Permalink Reply by Belinda on January 13, 2009 at 4:50pm

I will remember to have this checked when I see my Dr next, thank you for the advice :)

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Permalink Reply by Belinda on January 13, 2009 at 4:47pm

There are women I know who are dangerously obese and yet they have been able to carry their babies to full term. I don't understand why I can't and I am not dangerously obese like they are.

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Permalink Reply by Retta on January 13, 2009 at 7:51am

In your post you wrote that you are Desperate for a baby. From the LOA point of view Desperation is resistance.

I understand that it is difficult to Let Go of the Outcome when it is something you really really really want. Could you relax and feel the goodness of raising a child? See how that feels better than desperately working to get pregnant? It appears you are good at conceiving.......now visualize parenting.

In no way am I saying that you are the cause of the miscarriages. Please understand that. But do you see how you can change your vibration around babies by changing your focus to raising them happily?

AND continue checking for outside triggers as was suggested.

retta

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Permalink Reply by Awesome on January 13, 2009 at 11:44am

I agree, I think you can change the way you feel, and in essence create a different energy for both you and baby to be in.....

It is my understanding that there is a completely different feeling when you want something out of desperation and want something out of pure faith and love......Please, I mean no disrespect, I am simply stating that perhaps we can help you re-create a sense of well-being inside, a place of pure faith and a place of forgiveness inside of you - allowing you to change your physical and emotional state and perhaps giving you another opportunity to conceive and carry this angel to full term.....

I agree with Retta, vibration is key, it's definitely worth a try and I love you, I am sorry for your loss, and I wish both you and your husband only the very best and with this send an overflowing abundance of all that is good, love, light and peace.....

Namaste,
Awesome

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Permalink Reply by Belinda on January 13, 2009 at 4:59pm

Desperation is also born out of desire, is it not? I wasn't desperate to have a baby when we first started trying, it is only becoming a "desperate" situation (for want of a better word) because of my age and the fact that I have been through so much loss and grief, I cannot endure any more :'(

I've also tried relaxing (which is what women with fertility issues are often told to do, because it magically makes them more fertile!), meditating, visualising myself being a mother, I can even close my eyes right now and almost feel and smell my newborn baby in my arms, but with the visualisation comes tears and heartache.

My desire for motherhood and raising a child with my husband is so overwhelmingly strong that it hurts.

Just recently our circumstances were greatly upheaved (we were financially ruined through a bad business deal) and so we were forced to sell all our assets and move out of the house we were supplied as part of the deal. All our stuff is in storage and we are overseas on holiday at the moment. I hope that the changes are helping to change my vibrational pattern because until we moved away I felt like I was stuck in a rut. So many bad memories and emotions were contained/attached to where we were living, I am glad to be gone from there now!

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Permalink Reply by Awesome on January 13, 2009 at 5:14pm

My prayers are with you and your husband.....

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