One of my biggest resistance to manifest my desires lies in the fact that I think my family and friends won't support my decisions. However they are still important to me and I don't want to let them down or lose them by manifesting my desires.
So I was wondering if you could ask the universe for your family and friends to be supportive with the decisions you make in life and with your desires once you get here. :) Obviously they are just trying to protect me from getting hurt or making a big mistake, but I got the feeling they are holding me back. Once I get my desires I don't want to fight with them.
Thank you for advice :)
i think maybe you should work on a belief that your dreams are not good and the Universe does not really wants them to become true. the truth is the whole Universe can not wait for you to be happy and live your dream life. Do you think your friends and family are not part of this universe? :D your desires will uplift them!
i think d last quote is particularly important for you:
I love it :) but indeed I think my desires are no good, because in my mind I myself think I'm crazy for wanting what I want. But my heart always goes back at it.... It's an intuïtion thing which got me conflicted and everyone's warning me not to go there, but I still want to go there in my heart.
and yes it's about a guy. But he hurt me and I don't ever want him to hurt me again and I actually don't think what he did was right and I feel crazy for wanting him, because there are a lot of guys out there, but there's this gut feeling that he might be the one I can't shake it. I don't want him back rationally, but in my heart I really do love him. So now I'm just trying to think about other things that I want and focus upon my life, but it sometimes pops in my head and then I'm confused again.
when your relationship with yourself will be stable and full of love also your relationship with your lover will be stable & full of love. and all the other relationships too. it's all about you and your vibrational balance.
That's the word I needed : balance. I need to get in balance with my good feelings ;) I was actually feeling really good but started to watch a tv show about suicide, which was so beautiful (because of all the insights : how words, thoughts, fears,... have an influence on what you do and what you experience and what other people do). But it actually didn't make me feel really good, because it was also sad. And I felt less better because of it and got back into a state of confusion. Wow. So it could be really that.
Well the way you are looking at the moment at this situation is a judgment and conclusion are you making and creating. You see you say you “think” they won’t support your decisions and that is a message you broadcast to everyone around you. Instead start out smaller and affirming that you are loved and supported every direction you turn and say that as often as you remember throughout you day. Also look at yourself too – when we accuse others – its often based on what we ourselves are not doing. Are you supporting yourself through your own life and journey? Could you support yourself more? How do you support others too?
No one can hold you back but yourself – that’s the ultimate truth.
I really could support myself more indeed :)
I see, I've been listening to abe and I can see now that I create my own confusion a bit.
One day I'm feeling good and everything goes fine, then I notice something that screws a bit with my vibration and instead of choosing to feel better I dwell upon it., this creates my confusion. Instead of feeling better, I go downwards again and then I choose to feel better and then I'm upwards, downwards, upwards, downwards ;) Okay time to stay in that better feeling ;)
Abe states all the time about staying in the "feeling good" zones. So when you notice you aren't feeling that great, take steps to feeling good. There is always something we can do to feel better, its just a matter of finding it and taking a step towards it. It really is that easy.
I agree with the other answers here. Just another thing to consider is whether you stand by your desires 100%. I have felt the way you do and a lot of times it was because I was not supporting my own choices fully, therefore I was seeking approval from my family and friends. If you think about it, when you are 100% sure that you want something, you don't really talk about it that much. You don't ask for other opinions. You just go for it. When you are out shopping and you see a beautiful dress that you really want, and it fits perfectly, you buy it! You take off the tags and wear it straight away. But when you are feeling so-so about a dress, you start asking other people's opinions. Do they like it? Will they compliment you? Should you return it? And you hope that they will convince you that the dress suits you well. And if they say something negative about the dress, you get frustrated with them! When deep down, it's you who is not sure about the dress. Ever happened to you? :) ok, maybe stupid example but I hope the point comes across :)
I'm not saying that this is the case for you, but maybe ask yourself if you fully support your own desires :)