I've started to keep thinking, I want an alternative romantic partner I could chose if I want to live the rest of my life out with...and I just let the idea of this original guy go...
so a second time in 8 days I dream about him with me, not with me, with me, holding my hand...
before that I don't think I ever did dream of him while I was asleep.
It may be that, or it may be you shifting into that vibration of being love. Nothing wrong with your dream, although it could also be a signal that you havent yet let go of him completely (i.e. the subconscious is still holding on to that ideal). It doesn't matter, keep your focus on what you want to create, imagine what it will be like, image how you are going to feel, imagine what things you will do together and really be that energy.
There was this cool likable guy I tried to chat with on a dating site, but I'm not sure if he will get back to me. I was thinking, maybe he could be an alternate romantic partner for the rest of my life?
Also nothing to stop you getting back to him you know?
We have not been togerher..... Yet.