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There's a soul contract, saying I'm going to get bad luck in this liftime

I've missed out on everything, every good moment, no happiness.

Bad luck happens, things happen to me. I could be an expert, make no mistake in whatever I do, do it the proper way and just bad luck happens.

No females in my life, worked the hardest out of anyone (even look at my previous thread).Read all the dating books, did everything so many years, not 1 month, literally 10 years, asked everyone how to send first message on online dating, had good pioture, profile and 200+ still no reply. I'm even a good looking guy9my friends call me handsome and an escort called me very handsome). who's very intelligent. Nothing comes into my experience. Nothing happened at uni, all the females in my network, community.

Yes I've gone to psychics.

I'm very spiritual, very nice person. Extreme suffering, very virtuous. 

Seen everyone else get clothes, go to restaurants, travelling. I just get bad luck. 

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@ London guy,

Thank you very much for your time and advice, suggestions.

I'll also re-read the other thread/s.


I'm not expecting anything, even if I've got what I want, I'll still help out. I have free time so I just help out.

"I make people happy"

Stop trying to make people happy. It doesn't take long reading your post to realize you can't do the same thing for your own self, and that has nothing to do with luck or anything/anyone else. Even further, you spite your own good deeds and actions by associating it with bad luck or by thinking that you should be rewarded for being a good person. Seriously, count how many times you reference bad luck and speak curses upon yourself, and that's just in one post. I can only imagine what you're consistently saying to yourself throughout the day or in your head. Luck is just something of convenience that we use so there is something external to blame because no one likes to blame themselves for the bad things in their life; we're usually quick to praise our greatness though.

It doesn't matter if you're the most handsome man in the world or the ugliest man in the world, women are much more advanced and complex than you're giving them credit for; they're not so simple minded as we often are as men. You refuse to see the great things that are in your life, and as a result, you're stuck on what isn't great and that destroys ones confidence; there is a reason why gratitude is brought up a lot, retrain yourself to see it in your life. If you don't have confidence in yourself, what do you think that projects out to those around you? Most often, women want a man that has confidence in himself and is someone that she can feel secure with because he is secure with himself.

So lets get down to the real problems you're having, instead of the scenario we place upon it. I'm not sure what it is yet, but there is something even deeper than the "I need a date" scenario being discussed here, and only you can reveal what that might be. When did you begin to doubt or look down upon yourself? Why/What happened? Travel as far back in your head as you need to and lets find the source that's echoing curses in your inner world. Tell me what you hate about yourself and be honest with me. We're going to strip your curse of its power and replace it with a blessing instead. 

As the creatures we are, our brain is delayed on the information that it feeds to our conscious minds, where we then realize what we THINK we're perceiving the outside world to be. Quite literally, we're incapable of directly observing the raw data that is flooding in from potentially external sources, because the amounts of data and lack of pattern processing would simply confuse our conscious minds on what's going on. We have quite a wonderful thing called our perception, and is what interfaces between all of that raw data coming in and our conscious mind.

The moment we awaken in this world, we begin to gather more and more information from everything around us. We begin to create our "lens of perception" through which we'll process/view/experience our personal realities. We program/train/manifest our realities through this process of altering and adding onto our perceptions. This is the key to everything you've been reading/watching and trying to put into practice. You're learning how to control and manipulate your perceptions. Your perception is what allows you to see/perceive things in your reality, and it's also what filters out what you don't want to see in it. It isn't that things simply stop existing (or existing), but that you allow yourself to begin to see it in your reality.

Gratitude, manifesting, etc... are all tools that we use as humans to alter our perceptions in the ways that we want. When we constantly say/think negative things to ourselves, we're unknowingly programming our perceptions to see those things in our realities and filter out the things that DONT support it. This is why the more depressed/negative you get, the darker reality seems to be all around you. Likewise, the more grateful/positive you get, the brighter the reality seems to be. It's the same neutral playground, but is perceived entirely different because of how they trained their perceptions. When you practice gratitude, you're simply training your perception to see things in a positive light first, rather than immediately going to the negative. After awhile you train your perception to do it automatically for you, and you lift the darkness by teaching your perception to see the light instead. 

Unfortunately, most people don't realize this process, so they've spent their entire lives blindly creating what they see. This is why LoA, religion, and other spiritual practices, are such powerful tools. You don't need to understand directly what's actually going on, you simply need to know how to use the "software" that controls it and you'll be able to change it into whatever you like. Just like with a computer, you don't need to know binary to communicate with the computer when you can simply use software to interface with it. All software is seemingly different on the surface, but when you get to the core of ALL software, it's the exact same binary that's doing the communicating with the computer and letting you know what you think is going on. As well, because we've spent a long time blindly creating, we end up spending a lot of time undoing all of the beliefs we stored that no longer serve us, or never served us to begin with.

Think about this for a moment. Have you ever seen those pictures that just seems like a bunch of random blots? Whatever, it's just random bullshit and doesn't mean anything. Then someone tells you, "See that? It's a horse." And your'e like, "Oh wow, yea that does look like a horse." Then what happens EVERY time you see that same picture? It's never just a bunch of random blots anymore, and you always notice the horse. Why? Initially it wasn't anything important that you told your perception to look for in your reality, so it was just nonsense that gets filtered out. However, you allowed someone to give you a new reference to store in your perception about it, and since you agreed, your perception added it to it's list of things to see in your reality.

Another example for those that have ever played this game. In the States we have some stupid game called "Punch Buggy." The basic idea is that when you see a Volkswagen Bug driving around, you yell "Punch Buggy!" and then you punch your buddy in the arm and they can't punch you back. Before you play this game, you never really notice these cars to any great extent (unless you already loved the car, in which you've already trained yourself to see them). Once you begin to play the game, you start to see them EVERYWHERE! It's like there is magically a lot more of them than ever before. It isn't that they didn't exist prior, but it wasn't something you had trained your perception to take notice of, so you didn't. After you trained yourself to see them because of the game, you see them even when you're not playing the game because you added a new rule to your perception. 

This concept holds true for all things in your life, and why they tell you to listen to your heart instead of your mind. Your mind is going to reinforce whatever you want to believe, even if it's not true and even if it's bad for you. Your heart isn't controlled by the perception (ego) of the mind, so it kind of allows you to create a "power balance." That's why sometimes the heart seems to contradict what you think in your mind, and sometimes seems to go against things that you believe.

This is why it's important to be conscious of what you're thinking/feeling, what you're saying to yourself, and what meaning you're deciding to give to things as you store it inside. This is why it's important to understand what fear really is, embrace it, and utilize it to make the changes you need, rather than allowing it to make you a prisoner. Sometimes the things that we store in our perceptions simply isn't true, but you have to realize that you created your own math system with it. You have an idea of what is and isn't true, and even if it's untrue, if 1 + 1 doesn't equal 2 in your math system, you feel confused or stuck. This is also why I tell people to NEVER stop expanding, researching, learning, experiencing, teaching, etc... If you limit your perception, you'll never realize what you need and can change about it because you bind yourself to the rules that you created for it, even if it's rules you simply obtained from other people. Through contrast we're able to properly assess what we think is real, and change our perceptions as needed. If you don't have a contrasting belief on something, you'll continue to reinforce the only information you have about something and reject anything that doesn't support it.

So with all of this being said, when you're using LoA and other such things, you're training your perceptions to see what you desire in your reality. It isn't that it didn't exist prior to your desire, but you're allowing yourself to see and take notice of it. When you begin to see it in your reality, you're given the option to do more than you could when it didn't "exist" in your reality. If you can't see something, you do nothing with it and you take no action on it, because you don't see it. When you're able to see it in your reality, you're able to take actions on whatever it is, so you're able to obtain it if you so wish. When we don't see the doors of opportunity in life, we don't open the doors because we don't know they're there. When you train your perceptions to see the opportunity, you're given the choice to take the opportunities, and that's why ACT is such an important step in all of this. You ask for it, you begin to see it, and now you must act upon it.

YOU ARE THE UNIVERSE THAT YOU'RE ASKING TO GIVE YOU THINGS!!!!! :) You're simply asking yourself to allow you to see it in your reality. Through the allowance of your being, you can and will become whatever you wish to see in your reality. 

I realize we are suppose to have wanted lessons, etc and set those up before life. But I too, have had a very difficult wnd painful life, it had instead if getting better as I get older , worse! I saw something about a soull asking for too much accidentally. Like getting way too many lessons at once. Man, I am sure, I am that person. I have had horrible parents, sublings, and romantic partners too. The worst one I mày give testamony today to have him incarcerated! I am at a new dating low at age 46.

I think it may be as they say; everyone gets the experience, some get the lesson. That's certainly something to ponder upon. 

You need to change what you believe: soul contracts are mainly down to power of suggestion.  Something is suggested to you, you believe in it, and the create your reality that way.  You really do need to change what you believe in, because it's obviously not doing you any good.  You believe that nothing works for you, and that women don't show interest in you, and that you do so much for others but get nothing in return.....and that is what you keep on manifesting in your life.  Change what you believe in.  Start to believe that women love you, that you get back what you put into life, and that things work out well for you.  It's called PRONOIA.

I've just re-read the replies and I would like to thank everyone very much for their kind replies, advice and suggestions, I very much appreciate it.

I'll expand on all the points made by the posts in the next 24 hours.

@Spirit Kid

As for the moment, if you've read my previous threads I have been bullied especially by uncle, aunts and a cousin, 2-3 community members so in some way I subconscious feel low. I don't get the support, encouragement, appreciation that I deserve and we all do.

I'm not as attractive as I used to be although you did say women don't look for these things. 

I feel sad that I haven't had any female friends as compared to others or intimate relationships.

Also I've tried to 'pick up' women albeit only approached 30 odd so far and some of them didn't want to continue conversing with me.

I'll come back to everything you said in 24 hours.

@Sir Neil

Thank you very much for your advice and suggestions. I really appreciate it. I'll change what I believe in and my beliefs.

@Artist Laura

I agree, we all have wanted lessons. Sorry about what you have been through. 

I’m sorry you are going through a hard time at the moment, but just keep the faith that this will change, because it will.  Bad luck does happen but then so does good luck too.  They don’t exist without the other and so often times when “bad” things seem to happen, good things are usually around the corner and I always think when they show up its one of those reasons to be grateful.

Now you say no females in your life.  You must not be on this planet right, because the women outnumber the men!  So what planet are you on?  You see the thing is that we create our own realities.  So you say “no females in your life” and the universe goes “Okay”.  However if you start recognising and appreciating females and the female form and characteristics you start noticing them everywhere. 

Now online dating seems all the range nowadays, but it doesn’t’ work for everyone and it may not work for you.  I would be hopeless at online dating.  I met my wife several years ago and got married last year, but I was really ready for her to show up at the time she did and I had done enough bad relationships prior to really be at the point that the next one was it.  Sometimes you have to be willing to give it all up (and interestingly enough that’s usually when you have no resistance when you finally say its over and one with).

Now you say you are in depth with the law of attraction and have read all the Abe books and others.  So what do you think your block is?  I mean they are all quite large books you have read.  Do you think the LOA works for everyone but you?  What else could it be?  You say you are a spiritual person but then interestingly you mention “extreme suffering”.  That’s like the old idea that people use to scare monger others into that you had to suffer to be close to God – but its complete and utter BS.  Sorry but this is something we have been led to believe is true and it goes against the LOA on so many levels (just that point alone).  What if you are choosing to suffer to think you are being spiritual – because that sounds like you are getting your wish fulfilled.  What if you made a different choice and a different order instead? 


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