The purpose of existence, You, in total , is Love. Love is that which Love sees and Love is. All One . That which is in not Love does not exist, for Love is what "existence/You" is/are - Totality .
I was watching a video this morning and Esther Hicks said "your partners are a reflection of your vibration".
It's not them its you.
I promise you that if you think love, be love, give love, do love... your life will change,
You've only fallen off your high flying disc, you just need to jump back on, and these unwanted manifestations will disappear (like they did before).
Love and Light
There is no such a thing as unmanifesting. You are manifesting all the time. Even if they the same things over and over.
To do this you have to look more deeply at what they are REFLECTING back to you. Could it be a personality trait that you are not consciously aware of? Of could it be the memory of judgmental people who have formed a negative expectation over the years? (One which then attracts judgmental people in different guises). In the case of the personality trait, you have to make conscious efforts to judge less and accept more. In the case of the negative memory, you have to practice forgiveness of the main judgmental person who has been in your life.