Why is this happening?
Hi everyone! New member and new post, I hope you guys can help me.
I dated this girl last year, we had a great time and after one month she decided to stop seeing each other because it wasn´t worth it. I never understood and at this point I don´t really care. She says she likes me but is not worth it, a little crazy I know.
Anyways, I had one last conversation with her on september and she told me the same, I like you but is not worth trying. So, I told her, ok, If your answer is no, I won´t call you anymore because when I say no to someone i don´t like beeing stalked by that person (not like i did it, I don´t like when i say no to a girl and this girls keeps trying and trying).
After that, I hear her name everywhere, it is almost anoying and I have seeing her more than when we used to go out, i am not following her nor calling her, NOTHING, to me is like I never met her. On december she called me twice and I let her know that I didn´t want her to keep calling me (I don´t hate her, just wanted to make that clear), on december 31 I wrote an email I Quote " Hi, I am pretty sure that you are asking yourself why this crazy dude is writing me, I don`t really care, anyways, I just wanted to which you a Happy new year, I wish you the best for you and your family and I hope your dreams come true, and I hope you find whatever you are looking for". She wrote me back which was really weird because i wasn´t expecting that, she wrote "I don´t think you are crazy anymore, I am really glad to hear about you blah blah blah blah", read the email once and deleted it. Today I just got to my office from my lunch and I saw her and she gets close and says I am going to call you because i want to ask you something.
I was like uh??
The think is, I don´t want to see her, I don´t want to talk to her, I don´t want to know anything about her, I just want to move on and find the right person for me.
How can I achieve that without being rude to her?
Thanks in advance.
P.S: Sorry for any mistakes or errors, english is my second language
I dated this girl last year, we had a great time and after one month she decided to stop seeing each other because it wasn´t worth it. I never understood and at this point I don´t really care. She says she likes me but is not worth it, a little crazy I know.
Anyways, I had one last conversation with her on september and she told me the same, I like you but is not worth trying. So, I told her, ok, If your answer is no, I won´t call you anymore because when I say no to someone i don´t like beeing stalked by that person (not like i did it, I don´t like when i say no to a girl and this girls keeps trying and trying).
After that, I hear her name everywhere, it is almost anoying and I have seeing her more than when we used to go out, i am not following her nor calling her, NOTHING, to me is like I never met her. On december she called me twice and I let her know that I didn´t want her to keep calling me (I don´t hate her, just wanted to make that clear), on december 31 I wrote an email I Quote " Hi, I am pretty sure that you are asking yourself why this crazy dude is writing me, I don`t really care, anyways, I just wanted to which you a Happy new year, I wish you the best for you and your family and I hope your dreams come true, and I hope you find whatever you are looking for". She wrote me back which was really weird because i wasn´t expecting that, she wrote "I don´t think you are crazy anymore, I am really glad to hear about you blah blah blah blah", read the email once and deleted it. Today I just got to my office from my lunch and I saw her and she gets close and says I am going to call you because i want to ask you something.
I was like uh??
The think is, I don´t want to see her, I don´t want to talk to her, I don´t want to know anything about her, I just want to move on and find the right person for me.
How can I achieve that without being rude to her?
Thanks in advance.
P.S: Sorry for any mistakes or errors, english is my second language
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Permalink Reply by Milo on -
You sure you have no positive feelings for her?. She hurt you sure, we can see that. Do you need to hurt her?, will that help at all?. Dig deep, do you really want nothing to do with this girl?. Why not meet up with her, have a drink or a bite to eat, relax and forget about the past.Let her say what she needs to say, then you say what you need to say, just say it with feeling. Dont do what you think is right, say what you feel is right.
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Permalink Reply by Chickenjoe2005 on -
Milo and Irinadax thanks for answering.
I still like her, but I am just beeing real, I like her alot, but she said No twice and thats more than enough reason for me to move on.
I emailed her because there are 2 dates I really respect, New year and Birthdays. I send a message to all the people who where special in my life, and I had a great time with her. I even emailed my ex (the one before her) wishing the best for this year.
The point is, I want to move on, and I want her to be away from me, now, if she is going to call me, I don´t really think so, and if she does is going to be for bussines, I have a pc customer support and also a web design company, as far as I know she is starting her own bussines, so I am pretty sure is going to be something about a webpage.
If sending an email to her wishing the best and if i decide to help her to reach her goal with out any string attached is contradictory I guess i am going to say no to her in order to reach my goal of moving on and finding the right girl for me.
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