Failure is the stepping stone to success, get excited about it!...
Then BOY am I going to be successful!!
He he good point Nicolas. And yes you are right.
There are some famous failures out there who were told no and broke through to great success!
I guess the message here is that most of us see a failure as final: we can't improve from this, and we can't actually do the thing successfully. I'm not going to say some navel-gazing crap like failure can teach us so much; what I reckon failure is, is a lack of focus on our desires. Or as one healer once said (can't remember who though) " obstacles are the things you manifest when you lose sight of your goals, " and you could add failures to this. This I believe is the main reason for them.
I don't believe that failures happen because it's not the right time: you are under the guidance of the highest intelligence of the Universe, and if you get the desire to do/have something, then it means that NOW is the right time. It doesn't make any sense otherwise. Failure is created by doubt and lack of focus, but as you focus on your desires, you build up belief in them.
Constant failure isn’t. Once or twice, yes, then you can get better at your shortcomings and get past them. But constant failure will just keep you stuck right where you are. Constant failure shows up a block which will just keep on blocking you unless it’s healed.
Well yes, I get that. What I was saying was that constant failure doesn't really teach you anything - only how to feel as much use as a cling film riot shield. The important thing about failure is that, when you fail, learn the lessons quickly. Don't waste time going round in circles doing the same thing again and again.