The thing that we most want you to hear is that when you get it out of your mind that your work in co-creation with others has anything to do with their behavior. In other words, just give that up.
Because you can't control their behavior, they don't want you to and you couldn't do it even if they wanted you to. In other words, so just give up any idea that you're gonna control anybody else's behavior and just make up your mind that you can control the way you feel about anyone in your own thoughts. In other words, you can control what you choose to focus upon about any situation or any person.
We think it is a wonderful thing when someone comes in to your experience and you feel less good after they get there than you did before.
We think they've given you a wonder gift, because they've given you an opportunity to realize that your energy can easily get out of balance, that you can easily be dissuaded to something that is not in alignment with who you really are.
And as you experience by experience, person by person, bring yourself back to feeling good, bring yourself back to feeling good, in time, what they're thinking and what they're saying and what what they're doing will be irrelevant to you .
In other words,
They can be contrasting data that helps you to get clearer and clearer about what you want, but who they are in any point in time has nothing to do with you.
When you get control of your own energy field between those two points of vibrational relativity, you have control of your life experience. And then, just as you said, the people who Law Of Attraction bring to you, will be those who please you when they get there.
The Law Of Attraction is always bringing to you those who are a vibrational match to what you've got going on. And so, it sounds to us that you are bit like so many people who are letting your vibration be about what you are observing. And so you are observing all over the place, offering vibration all over the place, so Law Of Attraction's bringing you a bit of everything. And a bit of everything is not a match to the specifics of what you are wanting.