Abraham By Topic
for self study, quotes reference, spending time with the material expressed by Abe....
As more quotes come up, will drop them in the thread. A lot of them will probably be duplicated here: INFLUENCE
How much can we affect other people's interaction with us ………… Their behavior by our imagining ?
Dramatically ! Conclusively!! Completely!!
So I can stay with the same two teenage boys and husband …………….
No they are the one exception <grin> [wild group laughter]
You see here is the way that it works. As you live with them and you see contrasting things that do not please you. And you hold those things that do not please you as your object of attention. Then its reflected in your vibration so then you don't have access to what you really want.
In other words you are a match to what you don't want rather than a match to what you do want.
So what happens is, you have to find a way of pulling back from observing so much what is displeasing you. And find a way to imagine more what you do want. Or to selectively sift and give more attention to what you do want.
Lets say that there is someone very close in your life, someone that lives with you, and you are observing something that does not please you. You are not setting your own tone. In other words you're letting their behavior, and your observation of it set your tone!
So, you feel powerless because the Universe is now responding to that that is being offered. But if you can find a way of stepping back…………..often when they are asleep or not with you………….. and really get your cork floating, at the same time as your holding them as your object of attention. You'll begin to notice right away that their behavior begins to change.
Now sometimes people say " But Abraham you said I cannot create in someone else's experience?"
And we say, this is not creating in their experience. What it is is setting your tone so that you have vibrational access to that part of them. So what happens is as you are offering a consistent vibration, then you only have access from anyone, things that match your consistent vibration.
Extract from Abraham-Hicks tape G- 5/29/97
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It is not your role to make others happy; it is your role to keep yourself in balance. When you pay attention to how you feel and practice self-empowering thoughts that align with who-you-really-are, you will offer an example of thriving that will be of tremendous value to those who have the benefit of observing you.
You cannot get poor enough to help poor people thrive or sick enough to help sick people get well. You only ever uplift from your position of strength and clarity and alignment.
Excerpted from the book "Money and the Law of Attraction: Learning to Attract Health, Wealth and Happiness" # 617