How do you use the Secret for a failed relationship?

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Permalink Reply by Lollybucks on December 4, 2008 at 9:46am

I think the best way to go about it is to bless her and send love to her as much as you can.See her accepting this energy in your thoughts and use meditation to forgive yourself and her.This will free you of a load of memories that cause us to block love. Then surrender it to a higher power...release it ,whatever turns out you and her will be happy and thats the main goal to maintaining your little girls stability. I learned something ...it goes like this... Picture your ex doing something she loves to do. I donno let's use tennis as an example. see her excelling at it and being HAPPY,laughing,beaming, returning the ball every time. Now everytime you feel a bad thought about her popping into your mind, ANY bad thought...flip the mental image of her on the court...enjoying her bliss.Make it a CLEAR PICTURE...this is blessing to her and peace for you. It defuses mental turmoil .You will be tuning your mind to blessing instead of worry or doubt( to worry is to pray to fail) and you will feel a peace about the situation. This mind trick helped me ALOT. Use your brain like a muscle or a tool and you will create miracles. Be blessed. I hope it helps. : )

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Permalink Reply by NavPitt on December 5, 2008 at 4:20pm

Thank you very much. I really needed to come to this site, because I have severe heartbreak. I hope that you will blessed beyond your dreams.

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Permalink Reply by Loren Fogelman on December 4, 2008 at 11:27am

You don't have control of your wife. You only have control of your emotions, thoughts and actions. What is it that you want? How would you be acting differently if you knew that you would be getting back together. Act in that way now, whether you are getting back together or not. Let go of the outcome. Accept that you are doing the best you can. It sounds as if you have put your life on hold for the past 3 years. That is not very attractive. Start living. Maybe your wife will see something in you that she finds attractive and will draw her back to you. Work on yourself and as a result your relationship with your wife and daughter will improve.

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Permalink Reply by NavPitt on December 5, 2008 at 4:26pm

Thank you very much. My life has been on hold for the past 3 years. I appreciate everyone who has given me advice!

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Permalink Reply by Manyfeather on December 5, 2008 at 11:07am

There is no failure unless you say there is. smile

Every experience is just that, an experience.
If I go the the fair and get on a ride. The ride doesn't please me, I don't stress about it, I just don't pick that ride again, I choose something different next time.

With relationships let me all show you and help you define more clearly what it is that you really do want.

Smiles,
Donna

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Permalink Reply by NavPitt on December 5, 2008 at 4:29pm

I am over come with emotion from all of the help that I have been given by everyone. May all of you be blessed greatly!

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Permalink Reply by Dlyn on December 8, 2008 at 11:24am

The most important thing is always to accept what is because what is, IS already is and not accepting will cause you to suffer. Try to be happy each day each moment do not but your happiness on hold enjoy life I know it's hard but remember all you EVER have is right here right not NOW.

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