ok she left me it was 4 years ago we were in high school and we had know each other since grade 6 and she fell for me two years before we started dating I had a temper back then but since I've gotten over it there also lots of high school drama and she knows i have and she. me and her are best friends side note she still hugs me before she leaves even know I do have to remind her sometimes. We cuddle every now and then. She comes to me with all her problems came to me for a comforting hug after her last break up. last time we were at a bar we were playing pool after a few drinks she poked me in the butt with a pool cue then not too long after that she cuddled with me. Still loves to tease me and mess up my hair after one of the hugs she said this “Here I know you miss this” me “Don’t deny it you miss you this too” her “Yeah I do” she also touched my leg once. she says none of this side note stuff means anything but i hope it does and i have a hard time believing her. We are 20 and 21 now. Also I was carrying her bag and a few other nice things which I have told I will stop doing and I think a good start for me getting her back would be for to show her that I haven't changed my mind about stopping doing these nice things for her by when she test me to see if I have I will hold my ground and show her that I haven't changed my mind.
Within the seed of your desire is everything necessary for it to blossom to fulfillment. And Law of Attraction is the engine that does the work. Your work is just to give it a fertile growing place in order to expand.
Many thanks for drawing our/my attention to the DNS posts. I remember him from the other forum and it was such an amazing feeling to read them again!!! Do you by some chance have the post where he refers to a 'basic script' ? I kind of remember reading it back then but I would love to read it again.....
"In my original post I wrote a section about why so many people have trouble correctly applying the Law in the area of winning the affection of a specific person, or an ex. I also wrote a basic script of what one can say that positions them to attract back their ex, while not making dependent on their ex and not violating someone else's free will".
hey kerwin..thanks for your response! you know its interesting that you mentioned what about my needs? and that is why i took a step back from him and once he kinda pulled away i let him go....bc i feel he isnt ready for what i am..but i know the kind of person he is...when we dated before he went overseas things were good...but he didnt want the long distance thing...and now that he is back and we hung out...it was like no time had passed....we just get along SO good....but its when we get close and he opens up then he kinda pulls away..and i just feel that one of these days he will stop pulling. and like i said i dont pressure him at all...but i also dont put my life on hold either....i go out...if someone asks me out...i will go out...
i dont know what your beliefs on signs and intuition are either..but that has really been a great guide to me too! I wake up happy each day now that i have really gotten into the LOA and understand it better! :)
hey kerwin..thanks for the response....interesting you say that his pulling away may be my pushing...which is really impossible....i NEVER push or pressure...he does all the initiating and i specifically let him so he doesnt feel like i am pressuring him...i mean he showed up on my doorstep after not talking to me for a month...but reading your post made me realize more its so much about him and not me....it is about what he has gone through...he has a lot of hate for his ex and when you have hate for your ex...you cant move forward with anyone else...so that is why i have let him be...bc i can only do so much ...but he has to do the forgiveness thing himself...i have a great/happy life with or without him....its just this feeling deep down inside me that he is the one....well i havent heard from him in over two months and he contacted me this past saturday night...but i didnt get the message til sunday...so i know that gives him the msg that i am not sitting at home waiting for him!!
the thing is kerwin he has two exes that both cheated on him...i recently found out the latest one was cheating on him while she was overseas and he was here watching her two children...and he found photos of it........now i didnt realize that she wasnt just with one guy....she was with many guys..which i wasnt aware of....so i dont know what that does to a guy? but i know it cant be good.....but to be honest i know there is a bigger force than me bringing us together....i dont know if you believe in signs....but that has been a huge part of my life...and it happened the other day....and those signs are always correct!
i really want to thank you for your post because it really made me think and remember that this isnt about me..these are his issues...and i would help if i could but it will be in all good timing! :)