"If someone abuses and hurts you, you have still attracted it to you in some way. You have to look at the beliefs you have about yourself, life, other people etc, in order to find out how you did so. "
"Buddha was speaking in a village square one day, when one of the inhabitants started to abuse him. Buddha paused and said to the man, "If you offer me a piece of paper and I refuse to accept it, what happens to the paper?" "Why , it…"
I spent the last couple months reading your thread from 2009 (Getting your ex lover back) and now that I have read all the pages and there's no more to read, I'm lost lol. I don't know how I found it, but I looked forward to reading a few pages each day and it helped me tremendously!! I've been "stuck" for over 3 years and I'm starting to understand why because of YOU. I tried searching for your other group "The Modern Mystic" but can't find it and I also tried to join the loafreecoaching.ning.com but still waiting for approval as well as friendship approval. As you can see I am very eager to learn more and get the guidance I've been searching for....your words just spoke to me with all of your wisdom and great advice to others. It would mean a great deal to me have access to anything you have to offer. Trust me, I've read a lot of books but you're the only one that reached me. Hope to hear from you. You are awesome!!
Hi mallica how are you? I hope u doing good , I came here because I saw ur post how to attract ur ex back . And when I feel longing or ngative I always read that over and over again , I sent ur friend request I hope u accept that and I wish I can joint on ur forum . U are such wonderful woman :) thank you for the tread xoxo
Hi lovely Mallica, I hope things are going well for you.
I have your first book very good and a question about your second:
Mallica, I ended it with him (ex boyfriend) and a lot of advice out there is for those who wete dumped, I did the "dumping" but I thought he was losing interest & was going to break up with me anyway. Sometimes now I think I may have been wrong. I also think we still like each other but it's like although we subtly flirt ;-) nobody knows how to make the first move. Of COURSE I'm open to him or better & of COURSE if he's happy with someone else I would let him go & also if we get back together & it ends up being a mistake, well, maybe I needed to get back with him to see if...& by the way I don't regret the break, I needed to work on my own insecurities etc...could your book help me, your second book, even though I am the one who left?
I'm not really wanting to have a big make up comversation but find a way to let him know subtly I am open to getting back together (if that's what he wants & I think it is or I wouldn't even ask I just think he's doubtful he has a chance.)
Such a long question, sorry!
I love that your book is LOA that's important to me too!
I wish you every success!!
P.S. I've done non contact already, it helped..we are currently in touch.