Hi! I could use your help. I have been reading your comments and discussions and I think ull be able to help me. My bf of 2.5 years left about 4 months ago. I have been using the LOA...my problem is letting him go. Its hard...cause i miss him. What are some techniques for letting him go?
Hi Tuna, I'm in a similar boat you were in - didn't treat my love too well (I didn't cheat either), refused to let him move to my state and was a bit of a witch most of the time. After three years of dating, I let up and dropped my guard but he'd already given up, saying he didn't want to be hurt anymore. He was really in love with me and now, not so much. I'm ready to be "all in" and together forever.
Physically, I've made room in my house, closet, bathroom etc.
Mentally, I visualize us together, journal and doing the processes from Ask and It Is Given. I have dreams about him once in a while and I know dreams are supposed to let you know what's coming. I'll feel so discouraged and impatient. Maybe he doesn't want me back and has closed his heart to me. I'm using the Emotional Scale to get back to better feelings. When I feel down, I say "I am receiving all the good in my life now" and I feel better but my mind drifts to negative thoughts. The Law of Attraction responds to the majority of your thoughts and I am trying my best to keep them positive.
Also, I meditate to give my mind a break and I'm about to make some subliminal mp3s to work on my subconscious.
I'm either doing to much or not enough. Frustrating.
So, any advice? I was an idiot and want my man back. Help please! :0(