I have associated with people and we all seemed to at one time, or another, or both, have used this sentence in conversation, "My husband is an ass". Now, what I have realized is, the more I have said this, the more of an ass he is. I vowed and affirmed that I would no longer use this, or any other negative remark when speaking about him. So, now when I am with my friends and they are complaining about this, that and the other thing, and I don't participate, they think that either I must have gotten rid of him, or am suffering from laryngitis.
Since I have made this affirmation, I have begun to get less aggitated by the things, or lack there of, that he does.. Thank you!