Today I have a matter that is confusing the sh*t out of me, to put it blankly. I would really appreciate your opinions and comments.
So recently ( 2 weeks ago) the woman I love and I had a huge fallout. We were both at fault. I decided to wait for her to initiate contact again. As we have been through a fair bit over the last few months, I thought "Well this is probably the end of it" and so started thinking of her as my EX.
I have not heard from her up until yesterday, when she messaged me asking for my bank details. She had hurt herself in December, and I took her to the doctors and paid all the fees. She wanted to reimburse me but I told her it was not necessary.SO in her message yesterday she wanted my bank details in order to pay me back for the docs. I sent her my bank details, being very polite, and commented saying I hoped her and her daughters were keeping well.
She replied saying they were all well, and then gave me the figure of the money she is putting into my account,she also mentioned that she would do the transfer this week,and asked me to let her know if it was wrong.
I replied saying i was glad they were all well, and that it would be awesome if she could put the money in this week. I also told her that her figure was incorrect, as it was actually less, but if she wanted to put more in I wouldn't say no.i ended it with lol.
Not another reply from her.
Last week I stated my intentions/desires to the Universe, that I love this woman very much ( unconditionally) and that I would like us to get back together, but if not....that was ok as long as she was happy.
going on to today :
I have emailed a few companies over the last few days that I am dealing with in, order to resolve a dispute with a telecommunications company. I receive a response this morning from one company, and the person im dealing with has the exact same name as my EX.I looked at her name and said "yes universe, I love her with all my heart" and I continued.
I then received a 2nd email from a different company, and guess what? the person im dealing with...her first name is the exact same as my EX...so I thought "ok...this is weird, but YES Universe, I love her with all my heart" and I continued.
A short while ago, I receive a phone call from a different company, and the persons name on the end of the line? Yip...the same as my EX. I just thought this is just crazy and weird!! Am I going delusional?
I know people ask for signs sometimes, and I cant quiet recall if I asked for a sign, but will admit that over the last few days, I have been seeing a lot that reminds me of her. The same car etc. I just thought that it was maybe because I had her on my thoughts that I was noticing these things, but after today...im not sure.
I will also add that her name is common, but not that common. In all the time we were together, I only came across other people with her name 2 or 3 times. Today it was 3 hits in one go!!
SO to all the good people out there, please give me your comments and opinions so that I may know if im going crazy or not.lol